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Author Topic: Asking a girl out but she's really busy.

June 09, 2019, 05:53:16 AM
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simplemal


So there’s this girl i like. We have been texting for around a month now. I have asked her out on a date two times now. Both times she said she couldn’t because she was busy with university and work (she is very busy lately). The thing is I kinda believe that she genuinely couldn’t go out.
We we text shes asks questions back and we have a pretty good time texting (she often responds with long voice messages telling how her day went etc..).
Now the last time I asked her out and she said she couldn’t I told her that when she is less busy we can setup a date. After that we texted a bit but then i decided that I am not going to initiate another conversation unless shes the one doing it and its for setting up a date.
I felt like if we kept texting nothing would have happened so I want something to actually concretely happen. Did I make the right move? What would you have done in this occasion? Thanks


July 16, 2019, 06:34:36 PM
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MeanderingMusing


How long was it before you texted her again? Did she text back first? From what you've said it seems as if you've been straightforward about wanting to date her, but she keeps putting it off for one reason or another. I would say give it a few days to a week, and if she hasn't responded, it probably isn't going to happen. I realize this is from last month, but I hope things work out one or the other.

 

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