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Author Topic: What Does He Want From Me?

July 28, 2019, 03:20:37 PM
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I recently reconnected with a guy I talked to from Tinder. We talked from end of November to about mid March and then he ghosted me until last week. I would see him on Tinder and I pay for Tinder Gold(yes you are allowed to hate me lol) so I could see whenever he swiped right on me. And I was so confused every time because I thought he wasn’t interested. And it really hurt me that he ghosted me because I liked him sooooo much. And I don’t even know why, I think it’s because I hadn’t felt like that for someone in a long time and we seemingly went really well together. He ended up posting on his snap story about going on dates and posted a pic of a girl with a little heart sticker above her head. So I got really upset and unfollowed him on everything and moved on with my life. Fast forward to now and I’m literally in the same predicament🙃. He hmu on Snapchat last week and asked me get drinks with him. I say yes bc I still like him a lot. We have a great time and get kinda drunk and he lets me stay over at his place. We end up having a drunk heart to heart and he apologized for ghosting me and I tell him that I literally cried over him multiple times and I liked him a lot. And he tells me he likes me too and that I’m what he wants and that we are good together. And in my head I’m screaming bc this is what I’ve been waiting for.
We go on another date 2 days later and that also went great. And now it’s been a week and I haven’t seen him since(but we’ve talked). And yesterday and 2 days before that, I saw on his story that he went on dates. And my feelings were hurt all over again.
So I guess what I’m trying to figure out is if he’s toying with me or not? And I don’t get me wrong I know he’s allowed to see other people, as am I, I just don’t wanna see it bc I have such strong feelings for him. Like why did he message me after months of nothing? Why did he say all that shit about liking me but he continues to see other girls? It honestly just feels like I’m his friend that he makes out with. And that’s another thing, I don’t think he wants to have sex with me because we had a perfect opportunity to bc his roommate was gone and we were both drunk and flirty soooooooo🤷🏻‍♀️
I definitely want to have a conversation with him about what’s going on but I just thought I would post on here and get some outside opinions. Sorry for the whole essay.

August 02, 2019, 01:00:07 AM
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Hi Im a new member here. But I impressive about your love story. Im glad that you found the man you like so much. But his action just so weird. I think you need to calm donw and think carefully about him. I read about relationship with Western man it have some level. Maybe you are now still on dating level, so I think he tried to date another some girl to see whom is the best for him.
Then when it come to in a relationship level you two should talk and respect each other.
I think you should talk with him and know his thinking that is your rights. And I hope you two will have a good talk and find out what will be next. Anyway looking for the update of your story here

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