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Author Topic: How do I get over him? Did I misread his signals?

November 02, 2018, 01:32:29 PM
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junior90


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

November 02, 2018, 03:50:47 PM
Reply #1

missg


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx

November 02, 2018, 04:04:29 PM
Reply #2

goodevening


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx

Agreed with missg, you need to try and break that awkward barrier now you're both back to school.

Try and establish contact with him, grab his attention. I'm sure he's still interested in you, he's probably thinking the same about why you aren't approaching him too!

November 03, 2018, 07:07:10 AM
Reply #3

junior90


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx



When we meet up he did not really give signals like he was shy. I did want to speak with him but now that he has a girlfriend i am confused. I felt like he moved on fast even if he did like me :(

November 03, 2018, 07:08:18 AM
Reply #4

junior90


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx

Agreed with missg, you need to try and break that awkward barrier now you're both back to school.

Try and establish contact with him, grab his attention. I'm sure he's still interested in you, he's probably thinking the same about why you aren't approaching him too!

I am not too sure if he's still interested in me as he already as a girlfriend. I am not too sure how to try and break the awkward barrier i am really confused :(

November 04, 2018, 05:32:27 PM
Reply #5

missg


Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx



When we meet up he did not really give signals like he was shy. I did want to speak with him but now that he has a girlfriend i am confused. I felt like he moved on fast even if he did like me :(

Yeah that's kinda weird, you could attempt to contact him via social media or something, but then you may be disrespecting his girlfriend!

i'd think carefully about this one, it may also give you a bad reputation?

November 30, 2018, 09:30:17 AM
Reply #6

giselle923


Hmm...I think you guys should probably find a time to talk...sounds like you need some closure. Once you've done that you should move forward. You'll come across plenty of guys that you may find interest in. Have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't get hung up over this guy. Plus it sounds like he's already moved forward being that he has a girlfriend now.

December 12, 2018, 10:21:19 PM
Reply #7

angeliacq


Clearly you don't misread his signals.

If you've exchanged flirty messages before and with his talking sweet, it's possible that this guy really liked you. I just think he's not all that 'serious'. If he was, he would've waited longer for you. Who does that these days? Obviously, he badly needs a girlfriend. Perhaps just when he thought he'd have a chance on you, you might've hinted him something probably through text or personal conversation, that clearly states that you don't intend to take your relationship to the next level.
 
It's not your fault. We ladies fall for men easily and it's because of their charms and we're afraid that if we tell them about how we feel, they'll let us down. You can't get over him just like that, but get busy in life, and I'm pretty sure it'll be fun to go out some time with your girl friends, spend your holidays with your parents or even hit the gym and stay gorgeous! Who could resist your charms? Do that for yourself and not for him or for any guys you meet. One day you're over him and you hardly know it.