Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

Quote from: junior90 on November 02, 2018, 01:32:29 PM

Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx

Agreed with missg, you need to try and break that awkward barrier now you're both back to school.

Try and establish contact with him, grab his attention. I'm sure he's still interested in you, he's probably thinking the same about why you aren't approaching him too!

Quote from: missg on November 02, 2018, 03:50:47 PM

Quote from: junior90 on November 02, 2018, 01:32:29 PM

Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

aw, he is probably really shy, which is normal as you are both quite young x

did he give off any signals that he was quite shy when you were meeting up with him?

i would attempt to speak to him but it's completely normal to be shy at your age, i remember when i was 17 and at school and i fancied a guy and he really liked me to, but when we were at school it was a completely different story. you need to try and speak to him and meet up with him at lunch xx

Agreed with missg, you need to try and break that awkward barrier now you're both back to school.

Try and establish contact with him, grab his attention. I'm sure he's still interested in you, he's probably thinking the same about why you aren't approaching him too!

I am not too sure if he's still interested in me as he already as a girlfriend. I am not too sure how to try and break the awkward barrier i am really confused

Hmm...I think you guys should probably find a time to talk...sounds like you need some closure. Once you've done that you should move forward. You'll come across plenty of guys that you may find interest in. Have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't get hung up over this guy. Plus it sounds like he's already moved forward being that he has a girlfriend now.

Starting off, i have no idea how is it to be in a relationship because i have never been in one. I just want to make sure i am not misunderstanding someone's signals. So the guy i really like is from my class. We live nearby so we end up meeting on the bus on the way to school coincidentally. We started to talk more and more since we took the same bus and i felt like he was starting to become flirty. He would ask me if i want to marry him jokingly and i would just laugh it off as i didnt know if he was being flirty or just joking. We met out of sch a few times and we texted alot too. Alot of these were quite flirty messages. One day he suddenly asked me on a date, thought he was joking and asked if he was serious and he said yes. Once i said "sure" he was really happy. He even said i would be the 'best birthday present ever' if i married him.These were over the holidays and when school reopened, it seemed as though he totally forgot what happen. We became strangers and increasingly awkward. Today i saw him with a girl which is his gf in the same bus i took and my heart hurts so much. I cant seem to get over him no matter how much i try. He does not even know i am hurt and upset bc of him cos we dont even talk. However he didn't tell me he liked me before but i felt he did cos he would be really concerned and sweet towards me and is not the same to my other classmates. Did i misread his signals?

it's been a while - any update @junior90?