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Author Topic: he insists I sleep at his house

January 02, 2020, 03:06:11 PM
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waiting_game


Hey guys,
So recently- like 3 weeks ago I started dating the guy I mentioned in my previous topic. Everything's been really great, we get along super well but the thing is- he insists I stay over at his house especially when we go out partying. I get that it's because he's worried about me catching a cab home alone at night and he wants to spend time with me- he told me to come last week even though I specifically said I was on my period which means it's not only for sex. I'm just not ready about sleeping at his place because to me this is more intimate than sex itself- we already did that, and somehow makes the relationship more serious. We're adults who work so staying over means I have to bring with me work clothes, cosmetics etc , to carry a lot of things with me bla bla. I don't know how to bring up the subjject without being rude- in my last relationship, 3 years, I stayed over at his place almost every night and now I started enjoying being by myself at night. What do you think I should do, does this mean he's not right for me or am I too distant?

January 08, 2020, 09:44:50 AM
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phinjennings425


You not wanting to stay over is making him feel like you are not really interested in anything more serious. Which maybe you are not.  Stay over every now and then if you want, if he gets pushy about it then tell him it's a pain in the ass for you with work. But also understand that he really likes you, most likely, and he likes you staying over.  If the whole relationship is just a sex thing for you then be clear because he's thinking something else.

 

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