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Author Topic: Friends to Dating?

July 27, 2019, 09:33:43 PM
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Monkeyguy8090


I’m confused let me give you the back story... So I met this girl a few months ago. She said she wasn’t interested in dating anyone and isn’t the type to get married. We are both in our late 30s. I’m like ok cool that’s fine I won’t push a relationship. So I haven’t. But then The first time we hung out at her house she took me to her room and I played with her boobs and she loved it. We did the same thing the next time and she really liked it if you catch my drift. That was over a month ago now. Now last week we went on a mini one night trip in a hotel. She wanted one bed for us. So we slept in the bed. I tried to hold her and start up something sexual but she didn’t seem interested and rolled away  from me. So I went to sleep.

Now she also had said how she doesn’t want a BF or anything and I’m fine with that. So I haven’t brought it up to her. But she texts me multiple times throughout the day every day and always wants to have me come over. We’ve cuddled a couple Times but nothing more. (Besides the first 2 times she orgasimed with me playing with her boobs) so now I’m confused.... she says she doesn’t want to date yet she’s always texting me and asking me to come over but won’t let anything sexual happen. Do you think I’ve been friend zoned or is there a way to turn this into friends with benefits? I’m not sure how to bring up friends with benefits if that’s even option? I’m so confused. Please help. 

August 13, 2019, 10:51:34 AM
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lemon7


It seems like that she is only looking for your companionship and is using you to satisfy her desires whenever she feels like it. Do you really like her?
If you do and you are actually hoping for something more than just friends, then I would suggest you to leave her. Otherwise she will only hurt you in the long run.

Everyone can live their life however they want, but I wouldn't create too much sexual history with people that aren't on the same page as you, especially if it's not a serious relationship. This will only mess up your emotions, just like how you are confused now. And as a woman, I can say that if you date someone in the future, who is genuinely interested in dating you, she may not like how you fooled around with many ladies in the past. And don't forget about STD and pregnancy, there's always a risk and make sure you are doing it safely if you do.

August 13, 2019, 01:05:01 PM
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Bartolo


It seems that she plays you, but do not expect more from her, apparently she has enough of what is. So if this does not suit you, run.

 

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