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Author Topic: Extremely Shy...How to Meet Good Men?

March 04, 2020, 09:11:12 PM
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TinaMarie


I'm an extremely shy gal and have been my entire life. This has resulted in me being 37 years old now and single. While I've had two serious relationships of a few years each, I kind of "settled" because I didn't think any other guys would ever come around my way since it's so hard for me to meet people. And then obviously those relationships didn't last anyway. I really struggle to meet men because of my shyness. Basically the only places I'd probably meet them is either at the gym or work. But I also find that a lot of men seem to avoid eye contact with me (not sure if this is just a thing these days, if it's because I'm traditionally "pretty" or if I'm giving off some weird vibe that turns them off). I basically feel no hope for meeting anyone, and at 37 it feels like my chances of having a family are pretty much over. I've tried dating apps, but had no success. Any tips for someone like me? I'm also worried about the stigma of my age...it seems like a lot of guys want to date younger women and think of unmarried women nearing 40 as damaged goods. I've also tried Meetup in my community, but everyone I meet is retirement age or nearing it.

March 07, 2020, 05:46:19 PM
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Snorkl


Your age isn't an issue, your vibe isn't an issue, it's your confidence. Confidence is like a muscle - if you don't "exercise" it, it will get weaker and weaker. Conversely, the more you work it out, the stronger it will get.

It sounds like you have two problems: 1. a steady stream of guys to "practice" on and 2. the confidence in yourself to know that when you *do* find the right one, you will know how to seize the opportunity.

This is a really common problem so you are not alone, and here at Snorkl we have helped dozens of people just like you get into the dating scene in a meaningful way. Drop me a line at the email in my profile, and I will be glad to see how we can help.
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March 23, 2020, 05:25:58 AM
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charliedeenfun


First of all, what is your definition of a good man? And then look for him according to your own criteria. Of course you should know that not everyone can meet your standards.

 

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