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Author Topic: Your Female Partner's Breastfeeding

April 18, 2018, 11:41:57 AM
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Jasonn


Do you mind it in public?  Myself, I don't like it cause too many guys are pervs.  Also, it seems personal to me so I think most people, outside of maybe close friends (maybe some of them), don't want to see it.

April 18, 2018, 10:38:58 PM
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weirwren


I know that you probably meant this to be a question for men, but I'm gonna' respond anyway. :)

My husband does not care in the slightest. He wouldn't care if I were on a stage and decided to breastfeed. I'm not even exaggerating, lol.

But for my own standards of modesty, no, I don't breastfeed in public without a cover. When I am breastfeeding (which I will be again soon), I carry a cover with me everywhere. If I can, I also like to try and find a private place, like our car.

However, I have always said that if I don't have a cover and the choice is between me breastfeeding in public or somewhere gross—like a public restroom—I don't care who sees. I'm always going to try to find a private place, but honestly, if my kid is hungry and I don't have that option, I don't care if it makes someone uncomfortable. I have to take care of my kid's needs. If someone is so immature that they see it as obscene or sexual, well, that's not my problem. They can just look elsewhere.

I feel pretty strongly about this, as you can probably tell. 😂

April 18, 2018, 11:41:03 PM
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Patrick Y


I know that you probably meant this to be a question for men, but I'm gonna' respond anyway. :)

My husband does not care in the slightest. He wouldn't care if I were on a stage and decided to breastfeed. I'm not even exaggerating, lol.

But for my own standards of modesty, no, I don't breastfeed in public without a cover. When I am breastfeeding (which I will be again soon), I carry a cover with me everywhere. If I can, I also like to try and find a private place, like our car.

However, I have always said that if I don't have a cover and the choice is between me breastfeeding in public or somewhere gross—like a public restroom—I don't care who sees. I'm always going to try to find a private place, but honestly, if my kid is hungry and I don't have that option, I don't care if it makes someone uncomfortable. I have to take care of my kid's needs. If someone is so immature that they see it as obscene or sexual, well, that's not my problem. They can just look elsewhere.

I feel pretty strongly about this, as you can probably tell. 😂

Probably they need places to do this besides restrooms, places that are cleaner.  Anyway, @Jasonn is probably concerned that it stirs up a lot of trouble - with boyfriends, husbands, the police.  The question is, though, is it worth the trouble to protect that right (to do that completely in public)?   

April 19, 2018, 12:40:09 PM
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wallet


I do not mind if my wife breastfeeds our baby in public, she does that and in my opinion is the most wonderful thing for me to see. I know there are people who disagree with this but it is only their problem, I do not care what other people think!

April 20, 2018, 07:46:31 AM
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Yannie


My husband doesn't care if I'm breastfeeding in the public. Breastfeeding is essential for our baby. So whenever and whenever our baby asks for milk, I breastfeed even if people surround us. My husband even appreciates my dedication to my baby. He even tells me with a smile on his face that I really love our child since I won't hesitate to breastfeed even there are people watching. And he stays by my side during the course of breastfeeding. He isn't ashamed of me, he even supports me.

April 27, 2018, 09:56:28 PM
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Patrick Y


I don't think a lot of people pay attention to the baby, as in males, unless they're weird.  But I could be wrong on this.  Anyway, it's terrible women have to cover up so much - but it seems like male nature is very visual.

May 16, 2018, 07:48:15 AM
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Valentino


Honestly, I don't think it's anyone's business. It's a personal thing that should only be done around the family. However, though, I don't think a woman would encounter a lot of harassment - but why put it out there, anyway, right?