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Author Topic: Should I tell him or wait?hello

February 17, 2019, 04:10:29 AM
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Hairbear


Hi I’m soon coming out of a 15 yr marriage where my hubby was verbally and emotionally abusive.I feel I’ve fallen out of love with hubby.I have a close male friend who calls and visits when not busy.However in the last couple of years I’ve developed some feelings for him I haven’t said anything but feel he may have some feelings as well for me.Weve known each other and hung out together for years.We are both same age now.Im feeling to let him know how I feel soon but am scared.What do I do please help
I am coming out of a 15 yr marriage.However I’ve had a guy friend that I’ve developed feelings for that I’ve known since 4th grade.The both of us are in our late 50s I don’t want to waste anymore time not letting him know how I feel.Should I tell him soon or wait a bit?Im confused.

March 12, 2019, 03:39:22 PM
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remus


you can try to talkwith him about it

April 24, 2019, 10:56:56 PM
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Seasonalflower


I agree with Remus that you can be frank about your feelings and talk to him about it
but at the same time I'm afraid that it might be too soon for you to jump into a relationship when you've just came out of a toxic one

if I was in your possition I wouldn't wanna be with anyone at the moment
try to solve the feelings you'll probably get later and start fresh after a few months, or a year if needed

I honestly think being single for a while is the best and healthiest option after any relationship