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Author Topic: My boyfriend has a smelly armpit. Should I tell him?

September 18, 2018, 08:54:20 AM
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problemgf26


My boyfriend really has a smelly armpit and I can’t tell him that directly. I don’t want him to get upset. I love him but I don’t have the courage to tell him that. Some of my friends told me jokingly that love is indeed blind. When we were out at the mall one time, a group of young Shenyang women even noticed it. I don’t want him to become a talk of town but telling him right to his face that his armpit is really stinky made me want to run away. Should I tell him in a joke way so that it won’t appear insulting or should I tell him seriously? But how? How should I tell him he has a smelly armpit without making him feel insulted?




September 23, 2018, 09:27:02 PM
Reply #1

goodevening


My boyfriend really has a smelly armpit and I can’t tell him that directly. I don’t want him to get upset. I love him but I don’t have the courage to tell him that. Some of my friends told me jokingly that love is indeed blind. When we were out at the mall one time, a group of young Shenyang women even noticed it. I don’t want him to become a talk of town but telling him right to his face that his armpit is really stinky made me want to run away. Should I tell him in a joke way so that it won’t appear insulting or should I tell him seriously? But how? How should I tell him he has a smelly armpit without making him feel insulted?

I think it's worth telling him because it's something that he can change.

On the other hand, if it was something regarding his appearance that he couldn't change, then probably not.

But he only needs to wash! I'd tell him.

November 17, 2018, 03:08:32 AM
Reply #2

Rachshell


I definitely think that it is important to tell him. I would start with subtle hints but if he doesn’t take the message then I would tell him directly in the most loving and tactful way possible. It may hurt his feelings but in the end he may appreciate your honestly more than just being nice to him.

 

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