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Author Topic: I just lost my husband before our baby comes out.

October 05, 2018, 10:59:03 AM
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preggywife30


Nothing was very heartbreaking for a pregnant woman like me than receiving a call from a nurse informing me that my husband just had a car accident and was barely breathing. Just before I get inside my dad’s car, I heard my mom sobbing at the shotgun seat. I was afraid to ask her what’s wrong. She just turned to me while shaking her head no. I knew what she meant but my heart and mind wouldn’t want to absorb it.

My dear husband just died and he won’t be able to see our baby come out. It was really really painful. He was a noble man, but why him? He loved everything in me. He showed to me that loving me is certainly one of his missions in this world. He was the man I always dreamed to be with until I grow older. Sadly, it won’t happen anymore. And that is something I can’t seem to accept.

October 05, 2018, 11:40:55 AM
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susanb


Nothing was very heartbreaking for a pregnant woman like me than receiving a call from a nurse informing me that my husband just had a car accident and was barely breathing. Just before I get inside my dad’s car, I heard my mom sobbing at the shotgun seat. I was afraid to ask her what’s wrong. She just turned to me while shaking her head no. I knew what she meant but my heart and mind wouldn’t want to absorb it.

My dear husband just died and he won’t be able to see our baby come out. It was really really painful. He was a noble man, but why him? He loved everything in me. He showed to me that loving me is certainly one of his missions in this world. He was the man I always dreamed to be with until I grow older. Sadly, it won’t happen anymore. And that is something I can’t seem to accept.

I am so sorry @preggywife30 , words can't describe how sorry I am darling.

You need to let yourself grieve for a while, this is completely normal, let yourself have some space to accept what's happened and that it will take some time for you to fully recover.

Surround yourself with positive people, family and friends during this rough time. Unfortunately I can't relate, I am hoping someone else will be able to provide you with some better advice but stay strong!

October 08, 2018, 09:02:48 AM
Reply #2

preggywife30


Nothing was very heartbreaking for a pregnant woman like me than receiving a call from a nurse informing me that my husband just had a car accident and was barely breathing. Just before I get inside my dad’s car, I heard my mom sobbing at the shotgun seat. I was afraid to ask her what’s wrong. She just turned to me while shaking her head no. I knew what she meant but my heart and mind wouldn’t want to absorb it.

My dear husband just died and he won’t be able to see our baby come out. It was really really painful. He was a noble man, but why him? He loved everything in me. He showed to me that loving me is certainly one of his missions in this world. He was the man I always dreamed to be with until I grow older. Sadly, it won’t happen anymore. And that is something I can’t seem to accept.

I am so sorry @preggywife30 , words can't describe how sorry I am darling.

You need to let yourself grieve for a while, this is completely normal, let yourself have some space to accept what's happened and that it will take some time for you to fully recover.

Surround yourself with positive people, family and friends during this rough time. Unfortunately I can't relate, I am hoping someone else will be able to provide you with some better advice but stay strong!

It's alright. I believe this is God's plan no matter how heartbreaking this may seem.  I have to strong for my baby because I know that's what my husband wants. Thank you so much for your advice!

 

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