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Author Topic: How to tame a shopaholic wife?

September 14, 2018, 08:59:32 AM
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unhappyhusband


My Filipina wife whom I have met during my visit in the Philippines is very shopaholic. This is one thing I hate about her. She’s caring and very affectionate. She takes care of me and loves to feed me. Only her shopping behavior I’ve been really hating the most since. I don’t even know how to deal with her sometimes. She loves to go abroad just to buy bags, shoes, clothes and more. She loves a foreign stuff; so that explains why. How do I tame her?


September 14, 2018, 11:07:43 AM
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goodevening


My Filipina wife whom I have met during my visit in the Philippines is very shopaholic. This is one thing I hate about her. She’s caring and very affectionate. She takes care of me and loves to feed me. Only her shopping behavior I’ve been really hating the most since. I don’t even know how to deal with her sometimes. She loves to go abroad just to buy bags, shoes, clothes and more. She loves a foreign stuff; so that explains why. How do I tame her?

Why do you want her to stop shopping and enjoying herself?

Are you both financially unstable, can you not afford these things?

I think you need a viable reason for why she couldn't.  :)

December 15, 2018, 09:15:42 AM
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Caguioa747


Loving someone is about wanting and contributing toward what is best for that person, which is not always the same as "what that person wants". She has a problem, and you are enabling that problem by not establishing any boundaries. If this relationship is about love, then the two of you need to do what is best for you as a couple, not simply indulge individual wants without regard for consequence.