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Author Topic: does my coworker likes me?

February 03, 2019, 08:17:41 AM
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First of all , my coworker is 37 years old and I am 22. I think he likes me and I like him too but I am not sure because he is super friendly with everyone. These are some of the signs why I believe this:
a) He had asked me a lot of questions and some of them seem to me weird like if I know cooking and I said no and he said that I should learn because my future husband would love it
b) He has revealed to me many things about himself without having asked for them (like where he was working before , what he has studied, how many languages he speaks and personally I feel like he says all that in order to impress me
c) Once I said my hometown is... and he said that he has visited and he should come and I said it is 4 hours away from our city and he googled and said no, it is more hours and smiled to me, also another time he asked what I would eat today at the restaurant that I was going and he said that he should come
d) when I changed my hair , from straight to curly he noticed it and commented on it
e) he said me after some time that I can call him by his name
f) He almost everytime says goodmorning in the morning and see you when I leave
g) Another coworker asked him if he has a girlfriend and firstly he said he has many for fun and then he said no and he said that in this city he has not found a girl in order to stay
i) once I turned my back to him in the office like ignoring him and immediately he talked to me and seemed to care
j) when I asked him if I bother him when I ask about his help he said hot at all
h) he said a name of a band and I asked me if I know them
i) once he was standing and he knew I was looking at him , he seemed nervous
all these he does when there are and other coworkers somewhere in the office
but when we are alone we dont say much, actually typical things

I dont know what to do but my instict tells me he likes me , should I ask him to keep in contact

March 12, 2019, 11:45:26 AM
Reply #1


i think he likes you 8) and you like him

March 18, 2019, 07:41:15 AM
Reply #2


Yes he does like you.
No harm in flirty behaviour and seeing where this may lead.
And remember not to change, because he has clearly fallen for the real you!
Good Luck!  :)

March 25, 2019, 07:50:41 AM
Reply #3


I think he likes you too, But dont be the one to initiate the first move. let the guy do it and if he really likes you he would let you feel that you are very special.

April 24, 2019, 05:51:13 PM
Reply #4


I might be wrong but I think when a guy is interested in a girl he can be frank and direct about it
I think sneaky behaviors like these mean he desires you
maybe likes your looks your face or your body
especially since you say you don't talk much when you're alone

but I lack experience in relationships so I might be wrong

May 24, 2019, 02:00:36 PM
Reply #5


From the sound of it they defiintely do :)

May 30, 2019, 06:39:58 PM
Reply #6


I agree with the above comments, but something rings alarm bells that if i was in a situation like that would creep me out a bit with the non-direct behaviour, but at the same time, maybe, he doesn't want to offend or hurt you. 

Looking back on my own life many many years ago(in a galaxy far far away :D ), i was never good at seeing signs and i think i missed a few because of it.  But i'd rather miss those signs than make the wrong call, seem creepy and be rejected/embarrassed. 

I may be wrong he does like you, but he is not confident enough to be direct. Just in case he's reading you wrong and is rejected and sometimes emotions like that can make a man want the floor to open and swallow them.
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May 30, 2019, 09:19:55 PM
Reply #7


I think you both like each other!  ;D ;D ;D


June 07, 2019, 02:54:59 PM
Reply #8


for sure you both have a strong interest.

July 27, 2019, 11:20:43 AM
Reply #9


Yes I think he does, all the signs are there! This is maybe an old post already, I'm curious, how did it go?

August 19, 2019, 06:03:32 AM
Reply #10


Sounds promising to me. did it end up working out?

October 12, 2019, 07:26:28 PM
Reply #11

Lea the Bunny

Sounds as though he likes you based on what you say.
Have a carrot and chill!!

October 30, 2019, 12:40:15 PM
Reply #12


yes he does like you. So where you guys at in terms of relationship??

November 25, 2019, 01:44:52 AM
Reply #13


He likes you, no doubts. Let us know how it went.

December 04, 2019, 09:49:04 AM
Reply #14


it sounds like he likes you and you like him.  The fact that he is very quiet when you are both alone I think means he is shy.  You should try to find a way to ask him out to a social setting but not a formal date (like a group of coworkers meeting for drinks, holiday party ect.)