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Author Topic: Country or Urban Person?

April 18, 2018, 01:54:14 PM
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What do you prefer in a mate?  Myself, I don't care, but I know that a woman from outside my local area might not relate to me well.  In other words, I need one from my area, at least - even if she doesn't live on a farm.  Anyway, I know this from a bad experience with one girl.

April 19, 2018, 07:41:21 AM
Reply #1


I am a married guy, my wife is from the same city as I am, but if she would be from another city or country I would still love her. Location is not important, what you have in your heart matters.

April 20, 2018, 06:17:09 AM
Reply #2


I don't think it matters! My husband and I met when we were both living in two different large cities - but now ironically we live in the countryside! It's all about who the person is at heart, and I don't really think that where someone lives is necessarily a good indicator of whether or not they're a good person.

April 20, 2018, 10:08:21 AM
Reply #3


I also don't think it matters. However, based from my observations and experiences with other couples, I have seen that most coupes who came from the same area (rural and rural/ urban and urban), are more comfortable and understanding with each other. Furthermore, I also believe that the knowledge of couples towards their cultures and traditions make their relationships more smooth sailing than others who came from different walks of life.

April 20, 2018, 10:42:15 AM
Reply #4


It doesn't matter actually, It's not where you from, but how you act.  Sometimes like the country or farm people, they didn't notice that they are just stuck on that kind of mindset.  They always think that, people in urban always laughing at them or discriminate them.  they creating a scenario inside their mind which is not good for them.   

April 22, 2018, 02:47:02 AM
Reply #5

Patrick Y

I think it can be an important thing, but maybe not.  It depends on the person.  Perhaps the OP simply met the wrong person.