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Author Topic: Newly single and newly Bi Curious

May 06, 2019, 11:35:35 PM
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thomasjgillispie


I've been in a relationship with a girl for the past 6 almost 7 years. We were engaged and scheduled to be married next month. Back in January some financial issues came up due to medical expenses for her and we decided to postpone the wedding to save money. Last month we broke up because she wants to focus on her health and getting better which i fully understand and respect.

Now that I am single i am bi curious but need help. I recently did some stuff with a bi curious friend but i couldn't get hard for a very long time which was a turn off for both of us. Just need help with identifying what this means and if its just because i was nervous and also general bi curious chit chat.

May 10, 2019, 12:33:05 AM
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Lovey


Guard your heart and your body, bro. You don't have to start something just because you can .

I invite you to take care of your being and your soul by avoiding certain things that would just cause further damages.

Love will find your way again, just be patient and beware of forbidden experiences.

Stay blessed.

June 07, 2019, 01:06:05 AM
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Alittlelost


Fear and uncertainty can sometimes confuse us, feel from within yourself what would make you happy but stay safe xx

August 07, 2019, 02:15:59 AM
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sambam4408


hi there!
I understand where you are coming from, I've been bicurious a long time and am just now starting to explore as well. I personally had an awful first time sexual experience with another woman. This was mostly due to my lack of experience and she did not have the patience for it  :-\ maybe you should try explore the reason why it was difficult for you to get aroused. Were you just nervous (I know I was nervous as hell), not into the guy, or I'm sure there are other factors that possibly could have been affecting you. Seeing this guy again or meeting other men might help you decide if this is path is right for you. I'm new to this site, so I'm not sure how it works yet. But feel free to reach out! It sounds like we are in similar boats.

October 20, 2019, 04:16:22 PM
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Gemini72


hi there!
I understand where you are coming from, I've been bicurious a long time and am just now starting to explore as well. I personally had an awful first time sexual experience with another woman. This was mostly due to my lack of experience and she did not have the patience for it  :-\ maybe you should try explore the reason why it was difficult for you to get aroused. Were you just nervous (I know I was nervous as hell), not into the guy, or I'm sure there are other factors that possibly could have been affecting you. Seeing this guy again or meeting other men might help you decide if this is path is right for you. I'm new to this site, so I'm not sure how it works yet. But feel free to reach out! It sounds like we are in similar boats.

I had a similar first experience with a guy but I stayed hard for quite a while despite being nervous. We were engaging in mutual oral and it was very enjoyable but he started getting really weird so I lost the ability to stay hard and left. Although it wasn’t the best first time, I was always thankful for the experience.
Just an average hard working blue collar married guy with a secret bi side looking for fun and friendship

 

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