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Author Topic: Bi-curious help and advice please?

March 29, 2020, 05:51:43 AM
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SexualGhostbuster


Okay so I consider myself mostly straight while my girlfriend is bi-sexual. Well recently i've found that I have a bit of a bi-curious penis fetish (apparently it's pretty normal from what i've read). Well in talking to my girlfriend about it she brought up the idea of a threesome with her and this other guy she knows who is gay. Lately i've been struggling with this because i'm not attracted to men at all just the package. So i'm kind of on this cliff because part of me is open to the idea due to my fetish but my straight side is super closed off to it. Like on one hand I get to try a fantasy out in a safe environment but on the other hand it's a bell I can't unring since I would be getting boned by a guy. My girlfriend has expressed that me bottoming would really turn her on and I want to turn her on while also living a bi-curious fantasy of mine but there's another part of me that feels this should maybe stay a fantasy. BTW it isn't the anal that scares me because i'm a huge lover of that, its more the I can't get over the "having sex with another man" bit. Any advice???

March 29, 2020, 01:05:26 PM
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dazedandconfusedfox


I came out as bi a few years ago. I am in my mid 20s so quite late to the game in some ways. I am in a closed relationship with a cis male so the option of experimenting was out the window for me. Instead I trialled out saying I was bi, and It felt strange at first but then felt right. I began to think about what I found attractive in women, how my feelings differed to how I felt about men. It's a process. It's not just about getting out there and test driving it out (although if you want to do that go for it!). It's also about you opening a dialogue with yourself. Sexuality is a spectrum, not boxes. Just try to work out where you feel you are at the moment. It might change! But that doesn't matter!

April 11, 2020, 02:53:35 PM
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Bitethebullet


Hello, I am very interested to hear how you progress. I am a single 44 year old guy that has been curious about guys for a long long time. I am currently seeking to explore this but still wondering if like you I should leave it alone as can't be undone.
I enjoy sex with women but porn with men and my own thoughts get me much more aroused.

April 27, 2020, 04:50:29 AM
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judith321


You shouldn't have a threesome now. Maybe you could make a friendship with that gay first.
Tell your girlfriends what you worry about.

May 12, 2020, 02:16:22 AM
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HappyToPlay,0690


Am I crazy?? I want to suck a nice looking cock and then fuck his ass!!

 

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