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Lying and relationships

Lying in relationships is okay as long as it's white lies
0 (0%)
Lying is never okay no matter how big or small
1 (50%)
I would date someone who lied as long as it was small lies or harmless lies
0 (0%)
I would never date someone who lied whether it was big or small lies
1 (50%)

Total Members Voted: 1

Voting closed: May 14, 2019, 05:53:11 AM

Author Topic: Your thoughts on lying

May 06, 2019, 11:00:29 AM
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pinkflower


I have been dating a man for over a year now and things were going great, so much so that we got engaged.

The problem is that early on, I caught him in a few smaller lies and then later on a huge lie.
It sincerely bothered me as I haven't lied to him through out our relationship, whether it be a small lie or big lie.

He asked his dad about lying and his dad said that everyone lies at some point whether it's white lies or hiding things so as to spare a fight.
He said it's normal and okay.

I am not okay with lies of any form. I would rather be in a relationship where we are honest with one another all the time, even if it's not always nice truths.

I am now wondering if we are incompatible over this situation as he still thinks that lying isn't that big of a deal depending on the situation.

Thoughts? Would you stay with someone who told you they might lie to you at some point? Do you think lying is normal or okay?

May 07, 2019, 05:56:35 AM
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pinkflower


Poll added to make it easier to give your thoughts on this matter.

It's also a private vote, no one will know who answered or what they answered.

However, if you have anymore thoughts or advice, please feel free to let me know.

Thank you.

May 08, 2019, 02:45:36 AM
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pinkflower


What's with this board? You can't even help someone out by giving your opinion or even taking a poll?

Waste of my time. No one on here has any decent advice anyhow, it truly is useless.

Luckily there are loads of other advice boards.

 

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