So my wife of 2 years has some real insecurities. She can’t handle me talking with another woman for more than a couple seconds. And if they are remotely good looking she will not stand for it.
Yesterday we went to a dive bar with our son and his gf. The bartender was a half naked lady. My wife asked me to get drinks. I went to the bar and completely ignored this bartender beyond getting drinks. I mean I kept my eyes glued to the floor. Specifically thinking of my wife and not wanting to upset her. Two hours later we arrive at a restaurant bar and the guy bartender does not card my wife. My wife playfully asks the guy why he didn’t then asks him how old he thinks she is. Then she states that he is okay for thinking she is much younger. Completely flirty and laughing and smiling. A minute later sh is staring at him as he is helping someone else and laughs to herself. That was it for me. I’m not worried my wife is gonna do some bartender. My concern is that I give the respect she wants yet don’t get it in return. I confronted her and she denies she did anything wrong and that she didn’t disrespect me. BTW she had been drinking and I had not. Please for my own sanity tell me I have reason to be upset.