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Author Topic: Why is he acting this way? Please help!

October 09, 2018, 02:03:14 AM
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Nanisunshine197


Okay to start off me and this guy started talking a few months ago. He was the one who initiated contact, and admitted that he was really into me, and wanted to get to know me better. We met and hung out multiple times, and each time we would we had so much fun together, but a few weeks ago he called it off because he wasn't ready for a relationship just yet because of what his ex put him through, and I had a hard time letting go because feelings did form with him, but I let him go on. He had asked if we could stay friends because he wasnt ready to loose me forever, but I kindly denied and told him that he wouldn't loose me. 2 weeks went by with VERY limited contact, and I was having a rough night so I decided to text him. He automatically knew something was wrong, and told me hes had a feeling all day something was wrong. We talked, and he was joking with me trying to cheer me up, but he had messaged me and asked if he could tell me something because it's been on his mind the last couple of days, and I fell asleep and messaged him that morning and told him he could. I waited a full day and no response, and come to find out all of the sudden now he is ignoring me, and it's been bothering me the past couple of days since he won't tell me. Why would he do this? He told me he cared alot about me, and he said actually he may care too much. When we were always hanging out he always got so anxious around me, and I could tell but I never said anything. Did I do something wrong?? I just wanna know why he I doing this. He said he never wanted to hurt me, but right now with him ignoring me he is.

October 17, 2018, 05:29:37 PM
Reply #1

missg


Okay to start off me and this guy started talking a few months ago. He was the one who initiated contact, and admitted that he was really into me, and wanted to get to know me better. We met and hung out multiple times, and each time we would we had so much fun together, but a few weeks ago he called it off because he wasn't ready for a relationship just yet because of what his ex put him through, and I had a hard time letting go because feelings did form with him, but I let him go on. He had asked if we could stay friends because he wasnt ready to loose me forever, but I kindly denied and told him that he wouldn't loose me. 2 weeks went by with VERY limited contact, and I was having a rough night so I decided to text him. He automatically knew something was wrong, and told me hes had a feeling all day something was wrong. We talked, and he was joking with me trying to cheer me up, but he had messaged me and asked if he could tell me something because it's been on his mind the last couple of days, and I fell asleep and messaged him that morning and told him he could. I waited a full day and no response, and come to find out all of the sudden now he is ignoring me, and it's been bothering me the past couple of days since he won't tell me. Why would he do this? He told me he cared alot about me, and he said actually he may care too much. When we were always hanging out he always got so anxious around me, and I could tell but I never said anything. Did I do something wrong?? I just wanna know why he I doing this. He said he never wanted to hurt me, but right now with him ignoring me he is.

sorry ur going through this @Nanisunshine197 , that doesn't sound nice but i don't think you will ever know why he's ignoring you.

but there are some questions you need to ask yourself, is he really over his ex? could he be still meeting up with his ex and doesn't want her to know that he's talking to you? or another woman?

it sounds odd that hes ignoring you, but to me it sounds like he can't be serious about it if he doesn't put the effort into speaking to you.

OR he could genuinely be scared and doesn't want it to happen again and is protecting himself by not speaking to you.

let us know how you get on xxx

October 24, 2018, 01:55:01 PM
Reply #2

Nanisunshine197


@missg Thank you so much! He actually finally opened up somewhat to me, and told me hes had alot going on these last few weeks. Even though he could of told me he didn't wanna talk instead of ignoring me I have let it go. He doesn't understand and realize how much I card for him, and it honestly hurts. I try to be there for him, but he always pushes away and tells Ms there is nothing I can do. Which in certain situations there isnt anything I can do, but I atleast want to be there for him so he can talk, and vent because I don't mind helping him. He is very confusing to me, and it's like he doesn't know what he wants, and one minute he shows Pure interest in me, and even talked about a future together, and then I'm being shoved out of the way, but this cycle keeps repeating itself. When he sees me he gets very cocky, but nervous and I believe in the zodiac signs and it just so happens hes a Taurus and they are known for that when they care for someone and are jealous because my friends and I went out to the bar one night dressed up and we stopped by his work. He seen me but swears he didn't, and just had a cocky attitude to him. So I'm not sure what to do. I'm thinking I just need to backup for awhile and let him figure this out.

October 24, 2018, 08:20:02 PM
Reply #3

missg


@missg Thank you so much! He actually finally opened up somewhat to me, and told me hes had alot going on these last few weeks. Even though he could of told me he didn't wanna talk instead of ignoring me I have let it go. He doesn't understand and realize how much I card for him, and it honestly hurts. I try to be there for him, but he always pushes away and tells Ms there is nothing I can do. Which in certain situations there isnt anything I can do, but I atleast want to be there for him so he can talk, and vent because I don't mind helping him. He is very confusing to me, and it's like he doesn't know what he wants, and one minute he shows Pure interest in me, and even talked about a future together, and then I'm being shoved out of the way, but this cycle keeps repeating itself. When he sees me he gets very cocky, but nervous and I believe in the zodiac signs and it just so happens hes a Taurus and they are known for that when they care for someone and are jealous because my friends and I went out to the bar one night dressed up and we stopped by his work. He seen me but swears he didn't, and just had a cocky attitude to him. So I'm not sure what to do. I'm thinking I just need to backup for awhile and let him figure this out.


It's okies, yes i agree, give him some space right now.

did he specify what the was going through? x

October 29, 2018, 10:59:47 PM
Reply #4

ClouldM


I wish I could understand men!

 

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