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Author Topic: Why he pulled away?

March 17, 2019, 01:26:28 PM
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ula23


 I’ve been seeing a guy for just a month, we’ve been talking on the phone and through texting regularly and also went out on several dates. After our 3rd date he asked what my plans for life are-if I want children and to get married. He said that he wants to get to know me and that he wants to have another child. 3 days ago he went on vacation with his daughter and haven’t contacted me since he got to his destination. He’s been posting on social media but not a single text to me. If he contacts me after he comes back I’m not sure how to react...I want to show that I don’t like being ghosted, but at the same time I understand that it’s very early on in the relationship. I don’t know if he’s just not interested anymore or is it no big deal...

March 17, 2019, 04:49:33 PM
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Landa1990


One thing I know  for sure  is that  long distance communication  only creates misunderstanding so wait until he returns this is only my opinion

March 26, 2019, 01:18:57 AM
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Mamabear321


I would definitely wait until he contacts you even though it’s hard! When he does, you need to be honest about your feelings. Honesty is always key and if it does move forward from there then he knows your feelings and what not to do again.

March 26, 2019, 03:29:23 AM
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kimorab


I say wait until he contacts you , then tell him how you felt about being ghosted.