I have a boyfriend and I just found out that my guy friend is seeing someone new. We have become very close this past year, and he hasn't even told me about this new person. I heard it from our mutual friend. But as soon as I heard about it it drove me crazy jealous!!! He had already been seeing someone before for about over a year, and that didn't seem to bother me too much (though I remember when I first learned of her I was pissed off too!).

Anyway, we have this concert coming up that my guy friend and I will be attending with a few of our friends (my boyfriend will not be there) though my guy friend might be bringing this new girl. My issue is first of all, why do I care so much!?? Shouldn't I be happy for him?? I always have had feelings for him so I guess that's why I'm jealous right now. All I can keep thinking is how I'm pretty sure he had wanted me to bring my boyfriend so that it was more of a couple thing, but now what I'm not, he might not be bringing her. At least that's what a mutual friend tells me.

This is all stupid stuff that I don't want to care about but do. I'm in a serious relationship but find myself thinking way too much about my feelings for my friend, and how great we get along. There is definitely a sexual tension, but now that I have found out about this new girl, it has driven me to a jealous place where I don't want to be.