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Author Topic: what should i doo

January 27, 2019, 06:17:57 PM
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cheyxie


hey everyone i know i have made a post about it before but i'm not sure what i really should do now.
my boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and i'm feeling lowkey sad that i'm not getting the affection i want from him.

i'm more of a verbal/physical affection type of person while i guess he's more of physical? but it's disheartening for me to see that i'm the one to initiate holding his hand almost every time and telling him i love him, even verbally and physically bc i want to show him i care alot after his ex didnt show him the same love he deserved.

i know people are telling me to be patient, i'm trying however i'm not sure if i can do that for long bc i'm starting to feel like im rly not wanted by him, i know i sound a bit clingy. i didnt want to talk about this topic with him bc i brought it up twice and i felt if i talked about it again, it'd pressure him into trying to change which i don't want someone to change who they are bc of me., idont know what to do at this point because it brings me down at times that i feel like i am putting effort in these physical and verbal affection displays towards him and i wish it was enough for me but sadly its not. :/

February 05, 2019, 10:31:46 PM
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EmberKev11


I would tell him how you really feel. Maybe there is a lost in communication. Not making excuses for him, but it could be how he expresses affection.