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Author Topic: What should I do?

February 01, 2020, 05:21:59 AM
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JustSad


Hi,

I need help about what recently happened with this girl.

So basically, I’m at uni and I am living in a flat-share with 3 other people. During the last 2 months, me and this girl (one of my flatmate) got really close to each other, we were just friend though. However, about 2 days ago we both drank and got really pissed and we ended up kissing several times.

Obviously, we had to talk about what happened. So we did, and basically she just told me that « we were really drunk, so let’s just pretend nothing happened ». She didn’t really let me speak at the time and obviously that’s not what I wanted things to become. First, although we said we would act like nothing happened, things were really awkward between us. Also, while it’s true that it happened while we were drunk, it meant something (or at least for me).

So in the end, I ended up going out again to forget about this. And I know that pretending like nothing ever happened will not work for me. So knowing that we are flatmates for at least 4-5 months, should I just tell her how I feel and that I want us to be more than friends because I really like her, or should I just do something a bit more mitigated: like I thought it could lead to something but if not then we can stay friends. Or finally, should I just distance myself from her so I won’t get hurt.

Thank you for reading this, please tell le what you think x

February 01, 2020, 07:50:56 AM
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February 01, 2020, 10:11:35 AM
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thesideswitch


I hate to say but I think the last option is the best, and the hardest for two reasons
1-cos youre housemates. Naturally youre gonna see and speak with eachother so candidly due to the nature of your living situation and 2-last thing you can and WANT to do when you like someone is distance yourself. Best route I take it via crushing on someone else - its pathetic and perhaps dangerous if youre messing with someone else who falls immediately but its the beauty of freedom and knowing youre still single - you can get who you want.