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Author Topic: What does this mean???

July 06, 2019, 12:01:19 PM
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 Ok so my female friend and I have been friends for several years. Just recently we've been spending a lot of time together. She's been dealing with some family issues and its become a depressing situation for her. With that being said its pushed us a lot closer together. She would sleep over my house and in my bed with me. But we would have and hold the respect for us being friends. Well just 2 days ago we ended up having sex while we were in my bed. It didn't get weird or maybe i couldnt see it. But she got a little distant from me. For a whole 2 days lol. Finally she calls me and ask if i would pick her up. Well when i got to where she was staying at. She then asked for me to come inside and relax. So it got late and we both had become a little sleepy. Well one thing lead to another and we had sex once again. So now shes telling me that we shouldnt of done that. Then she started to get anxiety and couldn't look at me. I asked her what was wrong and she seemed upset. Then she asked if i could leave because she needs to clear her thoughts and that she would call me. Can someone please tell me whats going on here. I care about her deeply and i just dont understand what just happened. 

July 08, 2019, 09:34:27 PM
Reply #1


She might be feeling vulnerable and you provide comfort, but she doesn't want to lbe FWB and isn't quite ready for a relationship.

Give her some time.

July 09, 2019, 02:49:31 PM
Reply #2


She might be confused about her feelings about you.  You are friends and she may not want to mess that relationship up by becoming romantic.  Give her some time to think about what happened and how she feels.