I’m close friends with a man who is married and we had made plans to meet up and eat out somewhere. We were both sitting at a booth and we were both talking to each other. After he had finished talking, we both went silent for a moment. I had looked down for a second, but then when I looked back up at him, I found him staring and smiling at me with his head tilted off to the side. He also slightly crinkled his eyes for a few seconds while he was staring at me. Then, he started talking about a different topic. He's never given me that look before. What does it mean when a guy looks at a woman like this?

I think he likes you and that's his way of trying to flirt. I think.

But he's a married man, you should stay well away, because the chances are he's a cheat.

Let us know how you get on, do you have any feelings for this person?

Quote from: goodevening on September 06, 2018, 05:25:53 PM

I think he likes you and that's his way of trying to flirt. I think.

But he's a married man, you should stay well away, because the chances are he's a cheat.

Let us know how you get on, do you have any feelings for this person?

I think he's attractive, but I wouldn't act upon my feelings towards him. That whole look just seemed unique to me and it made me curious. He stared at me like that for about 8 seconds, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.

Absolutely, I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable, especially as he's a married man.

He could just think you're cute, but then that may imply that he does fancy you.

Who knows! Keep us in the loop with what happens... I am also curious to know what it means when a guy tilts his head and smiles! lol.

Quote from: goodevening on September 09, 2018, 10:36:38 AM

Quote from: Kelly on September 08, 2018, 10:14:06 PM

Quote from: goodevening on September 06, 2018, 05:25:53 PM

I think he likes you and that's his way of trying to flirt. I think.

But he's a married man, you should stay well away, because the chances are he's a cheat.

Let us know how you get on, do you have any feelings for this person?

I think he's attractive, but I wouldn't act upon my feelings towards him. That whole look just seemed unique to me and it made me curious. He stared at me like that for about 8 seconds, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.

Absolutely, I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable, especially as he's a married man.

He could just think you're cute, but then that may imply that he does fancy you.

Who knows! Keep us in the loop with what happens... I am also curious to know what it means when a guy tilts his head and smiles! lol.

I saw him again today. While he was talking to me, he kept touching his lips, chin, and neck. This was the first time that he's ever done any of those gestures around me. Also, as I was about to leave, he said, "I hope you enjoy this warm weather, such as yourself." But then he quickly said, "such as today" instead.

He seems very ... weird! Is he quite posh?

I have no idea why he would be touching his lips, that seems very creepy.

What are you hoping comes out of this? Do you like him? (but you need to keep in mind that  he's married!)

Quote from: goodevening on September 15, 2018, 04:07:26 PM

Quote from: Kelly on September 13, 2018, 11:09:20 PM

Quote from: goodevening on September 09, 2018, 10:36:38 AM

Quote from: Kelly on September 08, 2018, 10:14:06 PM

Quote from: goodevening on September 06, 2018, 05:25:53 PM

I think he likes you and that's his way of trying to flirt. I think.

But he's a married man, you should stay well away, because the chances are he's a cheat.

Let us know how you get on, do you have any feelings for this person?

I think he's attractive, but I wouldn't act upon my feelings towards him. That whole look just seemed unique to me and it made me curious. He stared at me like that for about 8 seconds, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.

Absolutely, I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable, especially as he's a married man.

He could just think you're cute, but then that may imply that he does fancy you.

Who knows! Keep us in the loop with what happens... I am also curious to know what it means when a guy tilts his head and smiles! lol.

I saw him again today. While he was talking to me, he kept touching his lips, chin, and neck. This was the first time that he's ever done any of those gestures around me. Also, as I was about to leave, he said, "I hope you enjoy this warm weather, such as yourself." But then he quickly said, "such as today" instead.

He seems very ... weird! Is he quite posh?

I have no idea why he would be touching his lips, that seems very creepy.

What are you hoping comes out of this? Do you like him? (but you need to keep in mind that  he's married!)

I do find him a little attractive. I honestly don't know what's going to happen, hopefully nothing progresses any further. I work with him on a professional level and he hardly emails me about anything unless if it's for something important (upcoming meetings). Now, he emails me with smiley face emojis. He's also beginning to email me about little things that aren't that important, but are still related to work (e.g. a recent conversation that we had in person about a certain topic).

Would you be all OK if he split up with his wife and then got with you? Would you feel secure in your relationship with him?

Do you ever think that he would do the same to you? If so, it's not worth the time!

On the other hand, if you do decide that you'd like to progress things further, I think you should wait it out for a clear signal. Let him come to you, rather than you go to him (but you should show interest).

You work on a professional level so you wouldn't want to complicate things (incase he doesn't actually like you!), also what affect would his have on your job if you were to get together?

Thinking long term, would you have to move jobs? All of this needs to be considered!