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Author Topic: What do I do

December 06, 2018, 01:01:49 PM
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Hi Everyone, I got a boyfriend who I have known from school and he wants to see me but I’m not allowed to see him because my Mum hates him, She hates him and she doesn’t want to know him because of the past when he wanted me to do rude stuff and he wished my mum liked him and got to know him and give him a 2nd chance. (He wants us to be happy together!) I don’t know what to do!

Any ideas on what to do I wanna be with him I do but with Mum in the way we're so close to breaking up coz of her!!

I don't know whether to break up with him or not!

December 07, 2018, 09:47:37 PM
Reply #1


That is such a hard question not knowing anything about this guy, the nature of the “rude” things, or how long since the offenses.  Just remember most of the time the phrase “Mother knows best” tends to ring true.  Do you actually love this guy or do you have some sort of lust or infatuation with him?  I feel like your best bet at this point in time (knowing just a fraction of the whole story) is to not ditch him, but not let yourself get to close either.  There will be a time (not in days or weeks but months or maybe even years) that you will know where your heart lies.  If this guy has a history, he has proven his capability, but everyone makes mistakes.  Depending on what that mistake is can really say a lot of if it was just a one off, or he actually has a dark place in his soul he’s not letting you see.  Maybe you need to just try a break and see someone else, and find out if your heart is truely dedicated to your current guy as you think it is.  You should also take in account the fact that hormones like to steer your thinking towards whatever is biologically beneficial to you, not psychologically beneficial.  Your mother is not hormonaly attached to this guy, so maybe she sees something your not seeing

December 13, 2018, 08:55:10 AM
Reply #2


If you truly feel that he is right for you then let your mom know that he is the right but mother will always be mother and she would never ever want you life to be ruin. My advice to to have conversation with all and put them in right position.