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Author Topic: What do i do if im in love with my FWB that has no future

May 06, 2019, 05:51:30 PM
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I’ve been “with” this guy for 2 and a half years now and he made it clear from day one he did not want a relationship. I didn’t at the time either but when I started developing feelings I was hoping he was too. Well I couldn’t have been more wrong, I realised I was in love with him about 8 months into us seeing each other and I told him so. He told me he loved me to but at the time he was moving country and told me it would never work long distance. Fast forward 3 months and he moved back home but later claimed never actually loved me (not like i wanted him to ) and he still didnt want a relationship. During this 3 months he sill flew over to visit every few weeks. I didn’t want to lose him so i continued the FWB situation and since then we have had 3 holidays together and done everything a standard couple would do, but he is still adamant he will never want a relationship and when he does eventually want one it wont be with me. His most recent reason behind not wanting a relationship with me is because im “too nice”, whatever that means.

We came from from our 3rd holiday only early hours this morning and hes just told me we wont ever be going on another one because his Mother wont let him (he is 22 and i am 23 but his parents are extremely strict and their religious beliefs wouldn't accept him going away with a girl). I’m devastated to say the least. I’m well and truly completely in love with this guy and i feel so stuck. I know there is no future but i cant bring myself to leave it just hurts too much. I suffer from depression anyway and holiday blues always make things seem 10x worse. I already miss him like crazy and all i want is to just be with him. Any advice? I’m feeling lost and like im going crazy waiting for something that will never happen.

 

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