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Author Topic: What did she mean with that?

September 17, 2019, 10:23:55 PM
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bobjuca2


My best friend suddenly said she couldn't sleep one night and had kind of an epiphany of how she should change her life. Fast forward two completely regular days with her, I felt she was backing of and avoiding me, so I gave her some space and later asked if everything was okay, she said yes, the next day the situation is kind of repeating itself, I asked again and she said nothing was wrong but she changed her priorities in life to what was best for her, I asked what does that mean and she said I shouldn't try to understand and barely answered my messages if not in this avoiding way.
Not going to lie, I'm really miserable without her and these days sucked. What does she mean with that? What should I do? Will things get back to normal? This never happened to me before.
Thanks.
« Last Edit: September 17, 2019, 10:25:52 PM by bobjuca2 »

September 18, 2019, 04:14:09 PM
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sadmirer


 Sorry to hear your having this issue. Sounds honestly like she might be moving on and your holding her back from what she really wants to do. It's a harsh reality but you do need to ask what that means for your relationship.

October 19, 2019, 01:08:52 AM
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soconfusednow


I'm hearing that this is feeling difficult for you. If she is really is your best friend, having an open & honest conversation about what that means shouldn't be a problem. You could also express that you feel a bit pushed away and just want to understand. Communication is always the most important thing in all relationships of all kinds.

November 02, 2019, 01:40:34 PM
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SM2630


I think she might be confused on how she’s supposed to change her life, or what needs to change. As your best friend, she should be able to have an open and honest conversation with you about what’s going on. Doesn’t sound to me like you did anything, unless she just won’t tell you. I can tell it’s bothering you but try to stay positive! Try asking her about it. I don’t think life changes should involve slowly cutting someone off...