I have been in three separate relationships before I got married but among those three relationships, I was with one girl that I loved so much for 7 good long years before we separated her family wanted to travel out of the country.

It hurt me so much to let her go. I would have continued the relationship with her but the distance barrier wouldn't help us at all and she was never going to return here again, so I had to let her go. I still love her till today even though I'm married now.

I've had 2 boyfriends before but they were short relationships that lasted only for a few months. My last boyfriend was tops when it comes to compatibility that we remained in an ideal relationship for almost 10 years before tying the knot in 1995. Now you can compute how long we have been together. There is actually no secret except maybe the "give and take" attitude that if one is insisting then so be it for later on everything will be settled in the proper way. We also make decisions together and most of all, the loyalty and fidelity are the most important.

My longest relationship is currently 2.7 years.

the longest term I've been had is 5 years. we took five years because he always following what I wanted in our relationship,  but in our five-year being in a relationship I can say all relationship isn't perfect cause after two years we're always arguing,  he was always adjusting because he hated me getting mad but I am still that war freak girl, every woman flirting her seems like hell. I dont want him to be gone that time because I love him and I know he love me too then after 4years we both talking just sometimes maybe because I've been tired of jealousing, he's asking me always why I've changed I answered pain makes people change and if I'm not going to change it will ruin my life, my study and my future. I cant let that happen because I have my goal and sorry but he is no longer with that. then exactly 5years, 2moths, 15days at 3:30 pm I'm in the class that time then his cousin called me. said his cousin is in trouble and then when I got home I called him again and he said his cousin had another girl then that girl got pregnant. what I felt that time is like silent but I heard the noise on my brain, I cant hear something but that kind of noise, my heart is beating so fast,  my body is paralyzed, then tears fell down. It's  painful, he respected me because we both students that time but why? then thats it he said sorry to me and said he didn't intended that. begging me to not leaving him but I cant, he have to marry her. for not he is still messaging me sometimes saying he still love me but not now I dont feel the love again.