i have this issue with my boyfriend where for a while, whenever hed try to touch me (not in a sexual or bad way) i would completely shut down and feel very bothered. it started happening recently, after a year of dating, and im not sure why. i dont decide to feel that way, and i dont have any bad feelings at all towards him. i love him so much and i feel really bad about ignoring him and shutting him out but i cant help it. if anyone knows whats going on with me i would appreciate the help so much.