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Author Topic: weird problem with my boyfriend, need help fast.

December 18, 2018, 12:53:20 AM
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feather


i have this issue with my boyfriend where for a while, whenever hed try to touch me (not in a sexual or bad way) i would completely shut down and feel very bothered. it started happening recently, after a year of dating, and im not sure why. i dont decide to feel that way, and i dont have any bad feelings at all towards him. i love him so much and i feel really bad about ignoring him and shutting him out but i cant help it. if anyone knows whats going on with me i would appreciate the help so much.

December 19, 2018, 06:29:13 AM
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Beally


Many ladies often experience this but normally such a situation arises after years of dating and often after a couple has had a kid. The aversion to being touched merely implies that there is something deep down that is compelling you to feel detached.

Has something been occupying your mind lately and you are yet to deal with it? Does it feel like he doesn't care enough for you?

It's not impossible to get back the spark back into your relationship but you need first to objectively analyze your relationship and yourself, see whether there is something that you've ignored which needs to be fixed.

December 31, 2018, 03:21:16 AM
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Esthrala


I guess it's because you have not opened up enough to him. You don't need to rush it up. Try to get to know him more. Maybe you two should go out more to have more time with each other.  This might help you build more trust in him. The more you know about him, the more you will be more comfortable around him.
Esthrala🤓

 

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