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Author Topic: Update for "His family hates me and hes been ignoring me.

August 04, 2019, 08:31:04 PM
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https://letschatlove.com/ask-a-relationship-question/his-family-hates-me-and-hes-been-ignoring-me/

As you know, this is an update to my "His family hates me and hes been ignoring me."

It's been rough for me. Of course it's been horrible. It has been nothing but tears and angst. I went back home. I'm sure no one noticed. Thank you so much for replying.

Have I really let go? Sadly, no. I still love him and I hate that I do. I want to let go but I can't. I hate it. I wish he would come home and take me in his arms, but even if he did, how would I know he loves me. If he kissed me, I still wouldn't shake off the fact, hes been cheating. I think of the happy days but images of his little guy friends haunt me. It hurts. I said it before and I'll say it again, he wasn't like this before we went to visit his family. But theres no use in saying that anymore. I'm better of without him and if hes happy, then good. I'm happy for him. God, I need a new boyfriend

But because of what happened recently, I still need help. I'm very confused. He's been calling and texting me. I ignored his calls. I'd just end up crying. Why didn't I just block him? The stuff hes been saying is interesting, to say the least. I did check his messages. They said something like this.

"Did you leave?" (Forgive my language but, no shit. I'm suprised he noticed)

"Why did you leave?"

I told him everything, the kiss, what his mom told me and how I don't deserve him, how he should treat me with respect, how wierd he was acting, how he should've told me about his sexuality and that he shouldn't be scared, and that it was over between us. Yes, I cried. I tried not to, but it was impossible.

He replied with, "I'm coming over."

I was scared. I didn't know what gonna happen. Was he gonna bring Donovan? (I hope he does so I can- )

Yesterday, he did come. It was in the morning. I almost screamed when I saw him. We sat down and I'm gonna summarize what he said:

"I know what I did was wrong. I shouldn't have ignored you. I apologize for being rude to you. You don't deserve this. It's just I have problems with my family (That didn't make sense. He seemed happier with his family). I don't want you to stress over it. My dad is gone. My mother said that I shouldn't have separated from her and that I should stay more. That I should discuss family problems with family. About the kiss, Donovan was a very close family friend. I've never had interest in men. I don't think I do now (No seriously, its what he said). I'm having mixed feelings but only on him. Donovan told me he was the only one who understands me because he had problems with his dad too. He was kind to me just like you. He said you wouldn't understand. They said to stay away. I don't like him romantically. But I do like it (Again, it's what he said). I dont know, Sophia. He says I need him. I'm sorry. I don't know what to do without you. I need your help. I need to go."

I only took a little bit from what he actually said or what atleast sounded important to me. What he said to me was a lot. He was stuttering a lot and kept apologizing. He sounded like he was on the verge of crying and kept avoiding eye contact. He wasn't overly emotional before. He kept saying my name over and over again. I'm really really confused. He should've told me what was going on. I kinda feel bad.

One thing that interested me is that sometimes he would almost say "I love you" and before he left, his mom called. It was annoying. What did she want? It was so wierd, like she kept yelling at him to go home. She really seems possessive.

What does this even mean? I'm an idiot when it comes to love, so I really need help. My parents never talked to me about these things and I'm kinda alone at the moment, so I have no one to talk to. He is my first boyfriend. Should I stay away from him? Should I be worried?

Sorry for the typos. Its hard for me to focuse now.

Thank you for your time.
« Last Edit: August 04, 2019, 08:34:24 PM by Ericaec »

 

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