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Author Topic: Ultimatum from ex gf

October 20, 2019, 03:35:53 PM
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Me (25M) and my ex (22F) dated for 9 months almost 2 years ago. We had a good relationship with ups and downs, went on a few trips together, but then I moved to a different city for work and we decided to break up. We kept talking, but obviously not like before and we still remained good friends while dating other people.

Then earlier this year, my ex moved to the same town as me for school. We hung out a bit at the start and since I travel for work, I invited her on a couple short trips. We hooked up a few times while traveling but nothing was ever serious and we remained friends. However, the last few months have been low contact to almost NC, until last week we decided to meet for drinks and catch up.

During our conversation we started talking about us and she says that if I want to start something again with her, I'd have to make her fall in love with me again. She then made some comment about how the work is on me bc she's not doing anything extra, and how it's basically now or never with us.

I'm torn rn because on one hand I like her, but I didn't expect to receive this ultimatum either. Please help me.

Thank you

October 24, 2019, 10:47:58 AM
Reply #1


How does she expect you to make her fall in love with her?

December 08, 2019, 03:28:55 PM
Reply #2


What do you want? Do you see her as a friend or do you want to try again at being a couple?
If you want to try again, why not. But eventually she will have to put effort into the relationship, she can't expect you to do everything, there are two people in a relationship, not only one..


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