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July 06, 2020, 06:15:25 PM
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Miriuim


I have been with partner for 8 years. just to start we have had quite a rocky relationship. We have a child together who was born 3 years into our relationship, throughout our relationship he has cheated a few times all being after baby was born. Over the years I feel myself going round in circles with him if we argue it’s always about the same three things... his job, not spending enough time home, and not taking responsibility. Our relationship has been at a stand still since our child was born! It’s not progressing at all he talks a lot about the future marriage more kids but doesn’t act on anything. We are lucky to see him even once a week as he is always so busy. He is a very controlling sometimes he doesn’t like to me wear shorts clothes have to much on show and goes through my phone a lot and questions everything! I feel like I’m just a secret and when I’m not around he is portraying his self as single! A few times his completely gone of the radar, by that I mean just disappears phones off for a few days no one knows where he is then he will just pop up again. He is a very caring person when he is around but then when he leaves and is back to work or whatever else he is doing his a different person most of the time. I’ve never met any of his friends apart from his old friends which I think is soooo weird if his friend comes to pick him up he will leave out the back so they don’t know what house he came out of. I feel like I can’t even express how I feeling without him getting angry saying I want to argue with him.
Right now we have grown so far apart I don’t ever see us going forward in the future to which I’ve told him and he isn’t bothered. I feel like he doesn’t love me anymore im just convenient to him.

July 14, 2020, 01:15:11 AM
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motts


Serious question, why are you with someone who controls you and tells you what you can and can't do? If he already cheated, why would you want to stay with someone like that? I think it's better to cut your losses because if he's obviously not showing his devotion to you or his child, then he obviously doesn't care. Sometimes we just want to believe someone can change, but only someone can change themselves. How many chances do you need to give until you've had enough? It sounds like you're both not happy, so you should think about that and what's best for you and the child.

July 16, 2020, 09:09:34 AM
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Tony


Motts hits the nail right on the head. Why be with someone who does not respect you and offer the love and compassion you deserve.

July 24, 2020, 06:50:23 PM
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July 25, 2020, 03:03:49 AM
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July 29, 2020, 05:46:51 AM
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LostandConfused07


I have to agree. I am kinda in the same situation myself presently, but I would have to say why stay with someone who doesn’t respect you and e hi doesn’t show you the love and affection you need/want.

August 04, 2020, 02:09:49 AM
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Dan_Cali_Guy


Sorry to hear about your situation. A wife and mother should be respected and considered by her partner. I applaud your strength because what you are enduring can be mentaly and emotionally  draining.

A relationship takes two people, it seems although your husband is proving for his family his physical being is clearly missing and theirs a disconnect between the two of you. If hes not willing to change based on his actions then you should not have to put up with this treatment. Your children are missing out on time with their father and seeing your partner once a week in addition to the lack of transparency of his whereabouts are highly suspicious.

If your not happy and you want a different life for your self, a better family dinamic, you should consider setting a plan of action to achieve that life. Sometimes its important to realize some things do end and theirs not changing it. If you have the means to survive on your own and you have made efforts to save your marriage but you're the only one trying to save it, then it's probably time to make a change.

Walking away from a marriage where your partner is selfish is not quitting but commendable because your chosing to stop accepting disrespect and choosing to take care of your self. Best of luck.

August 08, 2020, 11:39:05 AM
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Sweetthing1


His behavior is unacceptable. You and your child deserve better. Start reaching out to people you know who can help you in any way possible.  Although its very hard to think about moving forward with out a relationship, its even worse staying in one that puts you through so much turmoil. Think of what you would want for your child IF he/she was in the same situation you are currently in.

Best of luck to you!

-L
« Last Edit: August 08, 2020, 11:40:41 AM by Sweetthing1 »
- L

August 29, 2020, 02:17:34 AM
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