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Author Topic: There's a third party involved should i give up?

August 28, 2018, 01:47:48 AM
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kemily90


I’m getting fed up with so many nosy people... dozens of women from USA keep trying to flirt and steal my boyfriend away. He constantly reassures me that he’s only got eyes for me and that he’s loyal and wouldn’t do anything would cause me not to trust him. BUT, in his line of work, I’m afraid what I fear the most is inevitable. In the long run, he might end up giving in and cheat on me for someone else. I’m close to giving up but he’s making this decision so difficult for me. Should I keep fighting? Or should I protect myself and let go while it’s still fresh?

August 28, 2018, 10:33:41 AM
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I’m getting fed up with so many nosy people... dozens of women from USA keep trying to flirt and steal my boyfriend away. He constantly reassures me that he’s only got eyes for me and that he’s loyal and wouldn’t do anything would cause me not to trust him. BUT, in his line of work, I’m afraid what I fear the most is inevitable. In the long run, he might end up giving in and cheat on me for someone else. I’m close to giving up but he’s making this decision so difficult for me. Should I keep fighting? Or should I protect myself and let go while it’s still fresh?

Sorry to hear this @kemily90 ! What do you mean by flirt and that they try to steal your boyfriend away? Provide us with some examples.

What is his line of work?

Sometimes, fear is normal, especially when you love the guy as much so much because you're afraid of losing them. But you do need to establish trust in your partner, otherwise, the relationship isn't going to work. You can't always be worried every time they attend an event that has women at, or he's speaking to other women for work, etc. It's part of a working life.

Have you been previously cheated on? hence the securities?

 

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