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Author Topic: Stay with husband or start over

March 29, 2019, 03:56:31 PM
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Zoe_0419


Idk if I just hit my midlife crisis at 30 but I have come to feel confused about my life. I got married 3 years ago. Rushed into marriage after 2 months. It's been a very tough road but we have made it out financially and emotionally. He is from Central America 5 years older then me and no education. I am American with college degree and good job. When we started dating I believed I was going to be ok with way he was. But often times I find I miss dating someone I can relate more to about work, hobbies, and life style. 

So about 6 months ago I went back to school to further my degree andmet someone. He is going for same career as me. We talk endlessly and he treats me well.

I seperated from my husband but found I went back because of family Values and part of me was scared to have to start over at 30.

Now I am a one week vacation with my husband and everything seems perfect. But I know it's not. We talk and he's just very patient with me. He says he loves me and is willing to change for me.

But idk if I should continue to stay. Sometimes I feel like I'm more his mom then his wife. I'm really no longer sure what I feel for him. I have even said I love him as a friend. I have considered seeking therapy for myself.
I know he is a great guy cus he gives me everything and supports me in my goals. He will do and go anywhere I ask even my family. But then for him I feel I have to be the one motivating him always. He is insecure but has gotten a bit better since all the problems we've had. I'm always caring and have to be on top of him.
We also still lack communication problems. We both stay shut and we never scream.

July 10, 2019, 10:01:01 AM
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LoveTherapist


Hello,
I'm a local therapist and I have heard many stories like this and I've experienced it myself. It can be quite hard but you will get through this.
I will show you a video that really helped me here : https://dausel.co/wMsnlY
Last year I was stuck in the same way and this really helped me a lot.
Hope things get better.
love

August 04, 2019, 02:15:12 AM
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Alecia101


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August 05, 2019, 08:08:06 PM
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Roosje


Dear,
Focus on the good.

Don't look at what is bothering you. Focus on the love, kindness and compassion between the two of you.


1 When was the last time you put you first? Pampered yourself, stood up for yourself, did what really felt good to you and how did you do it?

2 Which online communities are/were you a member of?
How many of these communities did you join in the last 3 years and why?

4 Where are you planning to be 3 years from now?

5 Are you ready to feel good most of the time and live a life full of bliss?

6 Why do you feel that now could be a good time to transform your life,for the better, from the inside out?

7 What could be / are your main motivations to become a deep( emotional) diver and face life fearlessly claiming G.O.A.T*  in your field of skills and talents?
*Greatest Of All Time.

8 How do you feel when I tell you that you can BE, DO, and HAVE anything you desire?

9 If so, Who or what else but you and your thinking are holding you back from transforming, growing and living your best life now?

10 When are you going to shine (more) light on your authentic life journey, your life purpose, your soul mission and Focus on the brighter clues and aspects of your life path?

Love yourself First!

 

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