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Author Topic: Starting Erectile dysfunction meds with underlying issues not physical related

October 16, 2019, 06:52:44 AM
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Murough


Hello I’m new here and I have a whole bag of worms I call the man I love. We are about to undergo him taking viagira and Cialis. So anything someone can tell me about what to expect from those meds that would be helpful. In addition I think he is not having the physical issues he thinks he is having. We entered our relationship after nearly a decade of him being single intentionally. He thought then he had ED and bought a toy while planning our first time. But nothing was wrong with his body. He was fully erect but he would just panic and stop the sex. It took some time. I’d say a couple months in he was finally ready to have stress free sex with me. He had been my friend for years and we were very much in love but sex was clearly a hurdle mentality for him. This all started with me leaving a bad marriage to be with him and that brought him a lot of stress. Socially he felt like he looked like a home wrecker and was terrified of being publicly out for a long time. It turned my life upside down leaving him feeling guilty and constantly wondering if he was too blame. He wasn’t. My marriage should have ended long before he’d ever meet me and not once did he try to get me to leave my husband. I’d just hit the point enough was enough and I knew I belonged with him. All the related stress was wearing on him and he lost his sobriety. It was a nightmare but I’d known him 6 years as a sober man and I knew he was worth getting sober. It’s been about 8 months now since I finally got him over the hurdle. It left him without a drivers license and feeling like he had lost control to me. He had never been controlling himself but feeling dominated by me forcing him to sober up really drove a wedge between us. He has become distant at times and has very little interest in sex. I have always had a high sex drive that is rarely kept up with. So I’ve always tried to be patent but it was getting down to a few minutes of sex, no fore play and no finishing. Once or twice a month. I confronted it and pled with him that my sex drive needs something to happen a few times a week or I just cannot sleep and will even develop restless bladder where I’m up peeing every ten minutes because my vigina starts to just go haywire. When it gets really bad I start having minstrel issues where my plumbing isn’t working right. So I begged him to at least finish me off when we do have sex with a toy and take the time before bed to see if I need help getting off before we go to sleep. So I’m not up all night emotionally hurt and horny. He promised that would not be a problem but it’s not happening. Now it’s evolved to only using a toy at the same frequency and usually only after I’ve recently been crying and begged him to be physical with him. He promised he would try to help me with my needs more and it’s gone the complete opposite. He says he doesn’t think he works but at this point he refuses any forplay that could cause a erection. I’ve turned into a broken record trying to get him to address the issues. So I asked if he is so sure he doesn’t work. Will he start taking meds. Part of me hopes that not only with it give him a stronger erection but maybe on a physiological level he will decide he is capable of having sex with me. I’m scared though that he is not going to except that he actually has to engage in the acts that cause a erection in the first place though. He has been avoiding anything that could get him excited in the first place. Anyone familiar with men becoming non sexual under distress like this. Any advice would be helpful.
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October 16, 2019, 07:47:32 PM
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October 16, 2019, 07:47:57 PM
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November 27, 2019, 04:54:07 AM
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Appollo11


Sounds like you have a very understanding relationship

November 27, 2019, 01:18:57 PM
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Tone


I would suggest you to use Kamagra. I had never had erectile dysfunction problems until the age of 44. And me and my wife had huge problems in life (because of the deaths in family, financial, and problems with the family) and while it was all going on i was really under stress and it influenced my erection also. So I talked to my wife and we agreed to find some help on the internet and we have founded out about Kamagra on https://www.kamagra-uzitek.com. It helped me a lot, I can not describe you the relief I had when i noticed that it really work. I really didnt want to lose the great intimacy we used to have and maybe potentially even my wife. Kamagra really helped me not just to be the same as i was before, but we both agreed that now its even better than before. So I would suggest your husband to try it, it's not expensive and it definately benefits to both. Hopefully you are doing great these days!

 

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