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Author Topic: Soon to be fiance wearing her ex's wedding band

September 10, 2019, 03:13:57 PM
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Moby_moby


 I have been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. I will be proposing this month. Whenever we get dressed up to go out she wears her wedding band (not engagement ring) from her ex on her right ring finger. I thought this was weird so I asked her about it. She told me that she just thinks it is a pretty ring and that she likes to wear it. She said that when they got married he made her buy her own wedding band and that he did not spend a dime on it or even go with her to pick it out. So to her it has no meaning (it's just another ring). She told me that she divorced him after 3 months together because they had zero connection and he treated her badly. I can kind of see where she is coming from saying it's just a ring to her, but the fact that it was meant to be a wedding ring still bugs me a little bit. Am I being ridiculous?

September 10, 2019, 04:27:00 PM
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pibass


Well she may certainly feel that way and you should accept that is how she feels about it and not question it. However, I can see how it would make you feel uncomfortable. You should express this discomfort with her. If she is the right one she will act accordingly to not make you feel uncomfortable. What's really important to her? You? Or a ring she thinks is just pretty or meaningless as she has described it to you?

 

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