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Author Topic: Should I stay or should I go?

January 17, 2019, 03:05:43 AM
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Ttgreen


I am 42. My boyfriend is 45. We have been dating for going on 5 years in September.  Single mom of Three, the last two are about to leave  the nest.  I am dating an amazing man. But has some self esteem and confidence issues. His family is  awesome.  And my family loves him.  Have so much  fun together.  Mesh
well together.
 BUT... I keep getting like excuses for him not getting a place with me.
Going on five years. I love him and I know he is crazy about me.
I am tired of not waking up to his sweet face every morning.  He lives 25 minutes away. We stay at each other's houses.  Evey weekend and sometimes through the week.
I've tried to talk about it. But idk
Should I stay or should I go.  All the positives say stay. I can't wait another 5 years let alone forever . I need advice

January 18, 2019, 03:53:06 PM
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missg


I am 42. My boyfriend is 45. We have been dating for going on 5 years in September.  Single mom of Three, the last two are about to leave  the nest.  I am dating an amazing man. But has some self esteem and confidence issues. His family is  awesome.  And my family loves him.  Have so much  fun together.  Mesh
well together.
 BUT... I keep getting like excuses for him not getting a place with me.
Going on five years. I love him and I know he is crazy about me.
I am tired of not waking up to his sweet face every morning.  He lives 25 minutes away. We stay at each other's houses.  Evey weekend and sometimes through the week.
I've tried to talk about it. But idk
Should I stay or should I go.  All the positives say stay. I can't wait another 5 years let alone forever . I need advice

what's his reasons for not wanting to move out with you @Ttgreen ?

Also do you plan to buy or rent?

January 21, 2019, 12:58:38 AM
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Stellar123


Did he give any reasons for not wanting to move in? Does he own or rent, and how about you? What about marriage, does he ever mention that or moving forward?

January 21, 2019, 05:26:38 PM
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dilemma400


I'm in similar situation. Great guy...6 years but I fear having him live with me since he has little money and I am very set financially so I don't want to take care of him.  All I can say is listen to your instincts for both of you...if both of you aren't ready don't push it until and unless any concerns you or he have are resolved to the person's satisfaction. Living together is a big step....good luck

 

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