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Author Topic: Should I continue to talk to her or not?

May 28, 2019, 02:55:56 PM
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Ewith


I met up with a girl on tinder for some drinks. We hit it off and the connection was immensely strong. The only bad thing was she had to leave for flight attendant training school the next day and she told me she wouldn’t be back for another 8 weeks. We’ve been texting each other and she would say things like "Don't replace me just yet" and "I'll text you in 8 weeks and see if you reconsider a date with me again" to make it sound like she is willing to wait it out. I went on a few more dates and didn’t click with any of them. I’m starting to catch feelings for her but I feel like I should pump the brakes since I only met her for a drink and spoke with her for a couple hours at a bar; plus she’s gone for 8 weeks. Since I’m starting to like her more, I am starting to pump the brakes on dating as well..


What are my options?


Stop texting and if she text me back in 8 weeks and I'm still available go for it
Just forget her completely.
Stick to speaking with her.

What should I do?

May 31, 2019, 09:01:14 PM
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RaimyM


Hello,
I think you might be overthinking it a little bit. You are totally free to do what you want, if you really clicked with her, you will probably go on another date with her after her training, after all, it's not like she's going away for  two years. You seem to like speaking with her and I don't see a reason why you should stop. But in the meantime, you don't have to only wait for her, you can continue going on dates with other girls if you want. If it's gonna work out, all the better, if not, well, at least you tried. I think it would be stupid to completely cut her off if you're starting to catch feelings for her, after all, she'll be back in no time.
Good luck

 

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