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Author Topic: She'll get married soon and I got invited.

August 30, 2018, 10:04:32 AM
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sadexbf79


My ex who is also my best friend is getting married two weeks from now and I got an invitation from her. I’m having second thoughts on going since our break up did not turn out well. We broke up five months ago but I’m still stuck in the rock bottom of pain. She is getting married with the man who works at a foreign restaurant in our city and whom she cheated me on with. I know I should be happy for them and I’m trying to be. Should I come? If I should, what would I say? I don’t think saying “Congratulations, I’m happy for the both of you” will do good for me. I’m just lying to myself if I come and say that.





August 30, 2018, 02:38:45 PM
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My ex who is also my best friend is getting married two weeks from now and I got an invitation from her. I’m having second thoughts on going since our break up did not turn out well. We broke up five months ago but I’m still stuck in the rock bottom of pain. She is getting married with the man who works at a foreign restaurant in our city and whom she cheated me on with. I know I should be happy for them and I’m trying to be. Should I come? If I should, what would I say? I don’t think saying “Congratulations, I’m happy for the both of you” will do good for me. I’m just lying to myself if I come and say that.

Jesus, so, she cheated on you with this man and then has the cheek to invite you to her wedding?

I presume she's doing that out of respect, as she believes that you have both moved on from the bad event.

How come you remained friends with her after she cheated on you? Some people would've ran for the hills!

August 31, 2018, 09:00:05 AM
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I don't know, man. Maybe because her family is close to mine? Or maybe she has other reason. I really don't know. We're friends but it was never the same again. Just a casual treatment, that's all.  I tried to stay away, but I did not expect she will invite me though. 

August 31, 2018, 08:56:50 PM
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I don't know, man. Maybe because her family is close to mine? Or maybe she has other reason. I really don't know. We're friends but it was never the same again. Just a casual treatment, that's all.  I tried to stay away, but I did not expect she will invite me though.

If you feel as if you'll get hurt, I wouldn't go.

She clearly thinks that you're both over the event and that you have both moved on. By the sounds of it, you're still hurt, though.

 

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