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April 02, 2019, 05:32:09 PM
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JJQW2019


I am in a secret relationship, not by choice,
When I first started dating my now girlfriend she said we had to keep the relationship a secret. That her mother and grandmother were under a lot of stress, Because just recently she was raped, And had become pregnant, Being against abortion she decided to keep the child, I am course always very loving and understanding, I would let her talk and I wouldn't ask too many questions, . I wanted to be there for her And helper when she needed me at her own pace, She told me once the baby is born she will reveal to her family about our relationship. The baby is now 14 weeks old and I have still haven't met the baby or her friends or family, When I asked are about it yesterday she got upset and said that I could meet the baby but I think she has no intention of me meeting the rest of her family. She says she wants us to marry and be family but I have my doubts.

May 05, 2019, 10:59:50 PM
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aksam4all


Since the baby is not yours,  it is better to leave her and move on. You own woman will come

May 07, 2019, 01:49:27 AM
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Jas123


I think you need to have a long chat about the reasons that she wants to keep you a secret. I have had to be in a secret relationship and looking back, it really wasn't fair that it had to be kept a secret and did mess me up a bit mentally. It is really bad for your self esteem because it will make you feel like you are not valuable enough to her for her to want to be public with you. You should talk to her and explain to her why you are upset by it. But at the same time you should listen to her reasons, they may be valid. This girl has clearly gone through a lot and going through child birth is mentally and physically exhausting, you need to be able to empathise with that. If you want to be with her then you dont to want to be the person that she associates with arguments and pain, but the person who makes her happy. Sometimes you've just got to force yourself to be laid back about things and not let it get to you. 

May 24, 2019, 11:20:25 AM
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Imbesharam


I am in secret relationship with my fleshlight. Her name is obviously Kaira (the name of my ex gf) we both were in deep love but couldn't marry each other because her parents were not happy with our relationship. we tried to convince them alot but both of us failed & she had to marry another guy. Now I have this fleshlight I named it after her. So everytime I fuck my fleshlight it makes me feel that I am fucking my love. I got this amazing fleshlight from Imbesharam.com

June 08, 2019, 06:52:39 PM
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Nana


I think she timezoned you. Or she was looking for a shoulder to cry on and you were there and listened. Don't push too hard though. Give her time to process all her emotions.

June 17, 2019, 05:45:32 PM
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kahn553


It sounds to me that you should sit down and see what her intentions really are and what each of you thinks is going to happen long term with your relationship. It seems like you and her want different things, so maybe the best option is to clear the air and put your concerns out there. I wouldn't say give her an ultimatum or anything, but she should know how much this is upsetting you. 

August 12, 2019, 11:09:22 AM
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