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Author Topic: Please help me choose between two guys.....

January 09, 2019, 08:53:25 AM
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Shootingstars


Hey, so I have a bit of a dilemma  and I can’t seem to think my way clearly through it. I have found my self falling hard for another guy when I’m with my current boyfriend and just need some help. So here’s the situation...

My current boyfriend I’ve dated for about seven mounts and I love him. He’s not exactly what I was looking for as he has toilet and kiddish humor like making fart jokes and all (he’s almost 18), he is very clingy, and he’s a total follower...saying he’s just going to go to whatever college is closest to mine and base his life off mine, meaning he has no real dreams or aspirations which some people might find great to have there boyfriend want to base their life of them but I would rather have someone with set goals and plans. But I mean dispite those and few other things I love him. He’s always been there for me and has always lent me a shoulder to cry on. This guy is the most polite and caring person. He gets along well with adults and children, he drives, he has a stable well paying job, he puts me before everything, he’s just great...but here comes the second guy...

I got a job recently and instantly started a friendship with a coworker there. He’s pretty shy and antisocial but he’s super cute, sweet, and funny. He always manages to put a smile on my face and make me happy at work. I have only known him for two mounts though and I’m not even sure if he likes me. He’s a senior and I’m a junior in high school so next year as well he will be going off to college (the college is close though). And for some reason I’ve just fell hard for him. We always get to work together and just click, we have just amazing and fun conversations over text unlike the dull random exchange of hearts and compliments constantly my boyfriend and I have...To make this even more difficult my friend now has a crush on him as well.

So basically I guess my question is what do I do...? If I break up with my boyfriend and go for my coworker it would ruin my entire friend group and people opinions of me based on me and him are a very popular and talked about couple. If I stay with my boyfriend and don’t go for the coworker I might miss the chance to date someone who is perfect to me...I need some help

January 09, 2019, 10:23:48 AM
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Hey, so I have a bit of a dilemma  and I can’t seem to think my way clearly through it. I have found my self falling hard for another guy when I’m with my current boyfriend and just need some help. So here’s the situation...

My current boyfriend I’ve dated for about seven mounts and I love him. He’s not exactly what I was looking for as he has toilet and kiddish humor like making fart jokes and all (he’s almost 18), he is very clingy, and he’s a total follower...saying he’s just going to go to whatever college is closest to mine and base his life off mine, meaning he has no real dreams or aspirations which some people might find great to have there boyfriend want to base their life of them but I would rather have someone with set goals and plans. But I mean dispite those and few other things I love him. He’s always been there for me and has always lent me a shoulder to cry on. This guy is the most polite and caring person. He gets along well with adults and children, he drives, he has a stable well paying job, he puts me before everything, he’s just great...but here comes the second guy...

I got a job recently and instantly started a friendship with a coworker there. He’s pretty shy and antisocial but he’s super cute, sweet, and funny. He always manages to put a smile on my face and make me happy at work. I have only known him for two mounts though and I’m not even sure if he likes me. He’s a senior and I’m a junior in high school so next year as well he will be going off to college (the college is close though). And for some reason I’ve just fell hard for him. We always get to work together and just click, we have just amazing and fun conversations over text unlike the dull random exchange of hearts and compliments constantly my boyfriend and I have...To make this even more difficult my friend now has a crush on him as well.

So basically I guess my question is what do I do...? If I break up with my boyfriend and go for my coworker it would ruin my entire friend group and people opinions of me based on me and him are a very popular and talked about couple. If I stay with my boyfriend and don’t go for the coworker I might miss the chance to date someone who is perfect to me...I need some help

From my experience, I wouldn't recommend dating anyone at work, though they can work but it can also causes issues in the work place.

I would have a good think about what you do before you go and do it, are you sure that this new guy even likes you, or is he just being kind are you're new?

@Shootingstars

 

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