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Author Topic: Please help...I don't know what to do

March 03, 2019, 10:35:38 AM
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My way around life

My friend and I started being intimate and we were both fine with it until it started getting too deep I started getting attached to him so I decided to walk away but he won't let me...he kinda gave a vibe that he may be feeling the same way so I stayed. Now we are staying together but a few days ago I saw something suspicious in his phone and I went through it. I found out he's been cheating on me with his ex and another girl I haven't met. In both conversations he'd sent them the same poem he wrote me(at least that's what he made me think) on Valentine's. He and his ex were celebrating their yearly anniversary on 15th feb and they were making plans on how they are going to live together after campus. But he told me they were done...and then there's this other girl in the picture who apparently he really likes and he's trying to win over. I want to confront him but I don't know how to go about it. I know he'll make a deal out of me snooping on his phone to avoid the real issue...apart of me is scared of losing him but the other part just keeps hurt the more I keep it to myself. What should I do?

March 04, 2019, 04:01:36 PM
Reply #1


I know it is hard, but I think you should respect yourself first and foremost.
If he is lying to you and cheating on you (not just with one girl, but with two), he does not deserve you.
I do think you should confront him with what you've found, else you may forever linger on it.

Ofcourse this is just my opinion, if you are willing to forgive him, that is your desicion to make.