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Author Topic: Planning the engagement party of the person I love.

August 14, 2018, 05:56:59 AM
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dreamingman


I’ve been friends with her since we were in college. She and my sister were roommates so I’ve spent a lot of time with her eating take outs and pizza. We’ve shared all those tough time in college and broke months, post-graduation. In most romantic movies, she and I would’ve ended up together but sadly this is real life. I was offered a year of internship in Madrid and it would be stupid of me to turn it down. When I got back after the program, she was already with someone. Come two years after, here I am planning her engagement party. It was a favor asked by her fiance. Kind of a surprise from the people she’s closest with. My sister is so stoked about it while I am...well sulking most times. I know it’s too late for me to say something. But when I consulted a top foreign dating coach, he said I still had a chance. I don’t know if I should cross the line. Other friends would say we were the almost lovers who wasted time waiting for each other. Does that mean she liked me too? Can I still tell her what I feel?

August 14, 2018, 11:31:00 AM
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I’ve been friends with her since we were in college. She and my sister were roommates so I’ve spent a lot of time with her eating take outs and pizza. We’ve shared all those tough time in college and broke months, post-graduation. In most romantic movies, she and I would’ve ended up together but sadly this is real life. I was offered a year of internship in Madrid and it would be stupid of me to turn it down. When I got back after the program, she was already with someone. Come two years after, here I am planning her engagement party. It was a favor asked by her fiance. Kind of a surprise from the people she’s closest with. My sister is so stoked about it while I am...well sulking most times. I know it’s too late for me to say something. But when I consulted a top foreign dating coach, he said I still had a chance. I don’t know if I should cross the line. Other friends would say we were the almost lovers who wasted time waiting for each other. Does that mean she liked me too? Can I still tell her what I feel?

I think you should do what you're ut is telling you to do, because once she's married there's no going back, unfortunately (unless she divorces him of course).

You have one life, you need to make the most out of it. If you do truly believe that you two were meant for each other, I'd tell her, but then I would also downturn the opportunity of planning the engaement party as it wouldn't be fair on the other dude.

 

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