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Author Topic: No contact in 6 days. What does this mean?

December 19, 2019, 11:20:57 PM
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Blueeyes67


I could really use some clarity and insight.  Back story, my boyfriend and I have been together just over 3 years. We love each other very much. I admit we have some communication issues. I’m a communicator and he’s not that great at it and he will admit that. Anyway, we had a disagreement last week. He tells me I can talk to him about anything. I have been expressing some frustrations at our workplace. Not frequently but once in a while.  We are coworkers. He has expressed some to me as well recently.  I attempted to explain my point of view on this one issue. He disagreed with me. That was ok. I told him we didn’t have to think the same way and it was ok to have different views. He then told me I was wrong for thinking the way I did. That completely hurt me. It shut me down and I felt like I can’t really talk to him about things that bother me. I just said. He made his point and it was well said. He said ok. We haven’t spoken in 6 days today. Was I out of line? I know I’m part of the silent treatment problem that is currently going on because I haven’t reached out either.  I usually am the one who reaches out first after an argument. I feel like he owes me an apology. However I don’t think he feels he does. Hence the 6 days of no contact. Any advice is much appreciated.

December 25, 2019, 09:11:08 AM
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daisyd97


I think something is clearly wrong, since he hasn't contacted you in six days. If I were you, I would be mature and ask him to meet up in order to clarify things. You should tell him honestly what you think and why you feel as like he owes you an apology. I am sure that if he loves you and doesn't behave childish, he will understand and admit his mistake.

January 01, 2020, 09:10:25 PM
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Confused giraffe


He does owe you an apology.
You are two people and at times will have two opinions . As you would with family members, friends, co workers and so on. People do not have to agree on everything because they are if a relationship.
You should be able to talk to him about things .what's the point of being together if you can't?
As daisy said. You should arrange a talk to explain to him that he hurt your feelings.your opinion is as valid as his .
Hope you work it out

 

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