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Author Topic: Need to rant about her sister moving back in with us

October 02, 2018, 03:39:05 AM
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yrnehman35


Her sister is super annoying and we just can’t seem to get rid of her wherever we go. When I met my wife 5 years ago, I already knew she and her sister were bonded by the hip. I didn’t mind because she was the only family she had left, but when we got married I really told her that we had to move out and be by ourselves. When we told her older sister she offered to move out instead of us. She said she’s moving in with her boyfriend anyway and it would be impractical for us to drown in mortgage when we could have their childhood home. It worked out on our first year, but somehow her sister found her way back to our shelter. She said things didn’t work out with her boyfriend and asked if she could move back in. I didn’t have the heart to say no. I understand that Kiev ladies are really family-oriented like that but it’s just annoying sometimes. I don't hate her sister though. I just needed to get this rant off my chest.

October 04, 2018, 01:47:19 PM
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susanb


Her sister is super annoying and we just can’t seem to get rid of her wherever we go. When I met my wife 5 years ago, I already knew she and her sister were bonded by the hip. I didn’t mind because she was the only family she had left, but when we got married I really told her that we had to move out and be by ourselves. When we told her older sister she offered to move out instead of us. She said she’s moving in with her boyfriend anyway and it would be impractical for us to drown in mortgage when we could have their childhood home. It worked out on our first year, but somehow her sister found her way back to our shelter. She said things didn’t work out with her boyfriend and asked if she could move back in. I didn’t have the heart to say no. I understand that Kiev ladies are really family-oriented like that but it’s just annoying sometimes. I don't hate her sister though. I just needed to get this rant off my chest.

That doesn't sound ideal, does she not have other family members that she could live with?

Is she not an independent person, couldn't she live by herself in her own property or flat?

Lastly, what type of person is she like? How come you don't like her or is it just because you prefer your own personal space?

October 04, 2018, 08:36:50 PM
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goodevening


Her sister is super annoying and we just can’t seem to get rid of her wherever we go. When I met my wife 5 years ago, I already knew she and her sister were bonded by the hip. I didn’t mind because she was the only family she had left, but when we got married I really told her that we had to move out and be by ourselves. When we told her older sister she offered to move out instead of us. She said she’s moving in with her boyfriend anyway and it would be impractical for us to drown in mortgage when we could have their childhood home. It worked out on our first year, but somehow her sister found her way back to our shelter. She said things didn’t work out with her boyfriend and asked if she could move back in. I didn’t have the heart to say no. I understand that Kiev ladies are really family-oriented like that but it’s just annoying sometimes. I don't hate her sister though. I just needed to get this rant off my chest.

That doesn't sound ideal, does she not have other family members that she could live with?

Is she not an independent person, couldn't she live by herself in her own property or flat?

Lastly, what type of person is she like? How come you don't like her or is it just because you prefer your own personal space?

I agree she doesn't sound independent at all, it's time she stood on her own two feet!

 

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