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Author Topic: My relationshio isn't fun anymore

July 20, 2019, 06:59:31 PM
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Hey,

I have been with someone for over a year, we lived together for about half that time. I love him, we sometimes have wonderful times together and enjoy each others' company and clearly have been very serious about this relationship since the beginning. We are planning a future together. But now we are going to have to do the long distance thing for two years, and I want to make sure it's going to be worth it.

I feel like he has changed and our relationship too. He is always tired and I like to be active. I feel like he takes me for granted a lot. He used to be  such a gentleman and now that has gone out of the window. I feel like we have to do what he wants all the time.

I liked having an adventurous, surprising relationship, but it has changed so much now to thr point where I don't get much enjoyment from it. We always have little fights. We used to just this crazy, amazing, sex just because we wanted to - now I feel like I have to "make him". He has also become more greedy sexually. I feel like he isn't up to trying things I want and instead it has to be what he wants.

I have started to sometimes sleep in the other room just because I feel disconnected from him, I sometimes really feel like ending it. He always apologizes and tries to be understamding,  reassures me he lovesme etc, but then I end up feeling the same later on. I don't know what to do..

 

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