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What should I do?

Move on
3 (100%)
Follow her again on snap
0 (0%)
Flex super hard on ig, in the hopes she sees I’m still trying and she unblocks me
0 (0%)
Stop being super crazy and overly obbssessive
0 (0%)
That was your first date ever bruh date more women even tho I really just want a serous relationship. I don’t wanna mess around
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 3

Author Topic: My recent relationship

May 01, 2019, 07:40:39 PM
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Breakupdude25


I’m about to graduate college. I’m 24. I recently just took a really beautiful girl out, about a month and a half ago. This was the first first date I’ve ever been on. I’ve had a crush on this girl since the beginning of October and I finally had my chance to take her out in March. We went on 2 more dates after that and I thought it was all cool. Then after class the week after our first dates, she told me that she doesn’t want to go on anymore dates with me. Literally broke my heart. She said she doesn’t want a boyfriend I told her that it really sucks. She just turned 21 and told me that she’s just selfish. I deleted her on snap cause I want to give her space and she ended up blocking me on Instagram. Idk what to do. Can’t just like someone who has made me wanna step up and be someone better than who I really am and then just give up after I get cut off. I’m overly obsessed with this girl and I really don’t want to give up. She knows I don’t want to give up too and yet I’m still blocked on Instagram. Lick my wounds and move on? Continue to try to prove to her that I truly just want to be with her even tho she said there is nothing I can prove or change about my self to make her like me. As in flex super hard on Instagram and maybe one day she will unlock me? Follow her again on snap and subliminally hint to her how I’m not giving up through my stories? Really think she’s special and don’t wanna move on.
« Last Edit: May 01, 2019, 07:48:50 PM by Breakupdude25 »

May 09, 2019, 07:48:25 PM
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Lovey


Sad truth but you can't force someone who tells and shows you openly that she doesn't want to be with you.
The more she pulls up, the more you're attracted. It's typical and I get it, but you'll have to step back.

Force yourself to stop showing her interest and try dating someone else who's available.

But please stop begging and keep your dignity.  Block her everywhere and try to move on, one step at a time.

Good luck ;)

May 10, 2019, 03:36:12 PM
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cgo1234567


She made it clear she's not looking for a relationship. Nothing you can do about it.

 

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