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March 03, 2020, 11:30:40 AM
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Danbi123


Hello. Just a background of our relationship. We are officemates but we rarely talk about work because we are on a different teams but our stations are on the same  floor. Also, we dont usually talk in the office coz we don't like our bosses to find out our relationship but both our colleagues, family and friends knows our relationship. We've been together as couple for 5 months now. At first he is really sweet to me. He will do all the efforts that he could possibly do even on his busy days.

But this past month, I feel that my boyfriend is ignoring me. I don't know if he still love me. He always says that he loves me but his actions were different. Most of the time he prefers watching tv or playing games rather than texting me.

I already confronted him about what I feel several times and it always leads to argument. He says he's just busy which I already know that is true but what I've been worrying is that he has time to play on this mobile but he will just text me before he sleep like goodnight babe sweet dreams and then thats it. I cannot talk to him after office hours coz he is always doing overtime. I also asked him several times if he still loves me his answer was always yes iloveyou.

Now I tried not to talk to him for 2 days now and he doesn't do any move to talk to me. Our pictures and status in social media also our nicknames in messenger were still there and not hidden so I don't think he cheats unless the other party is aware that he has a girlfriend but I doubt it coz I'm seeing him in the office. That's why there is a little hope that maybe he needs time. Should I just keep silent too and give him space. Or should I just give up and break up with him? What if I break up and then he just agreed without doing or asking anything. I already said all my thoughts but he still in silence and I don't want to flood him with questions like "why are you ignoring me"? Please help. 😭

March 03, 2020, 06:30:14 PM
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shirayuki0205


I mean is there something wrong with him? Like is he going through some tough times right now cause that could be the reason why might be withdrawing a bit. But if you had already confronted him and it has lead to nothing, that is definitely not a good sign.....

March 04, 2020, 08:06:39 AM
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Danbi123


I mean is there something wrong with him? Like is he going through some tough times right now cause that could be the reason why might be withdrawing a bit. But if you had already confronted him and it has lead to nothing, that is definitely not a good sign.....

Before, he said that he is stress in work and that he do not like his new teammate that's why I always say kind, encouragement and sweet words to him. I even made him packed snack sometimes. I just dont feel that my effort is enough since he's cold. I tried to look for something that can tell me that he is flirting with someone but I cant find any either. What's worst is that I already told him all of my thoughts and nothing happens. So i don't know if I just ignore him too without proper breakup or I'll just wait him to talk to me without asking we are still a couple. Plus he is very busy right now that I'm afraid he will just be angry if i brought up a breakup issue and maybe he will just agree with it. ☹️

March 05, 2020, 01:49:21 PM
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Meallday


Hi,
How long have you known him before dating? 5 months of dating/knowing someone isn't that long to really get to know someone. He may be going through some things he doesnt feel comfortable sharing with you yet or simply likes his alone time. I would just give him a little space. It's great he texts you before bed, showing that he does still care and his thinking of you. From my experience as relationships evolve the texting slows and we dont communicate via phone as much as we use to. If you are overly concerned that he is ignoring and seems off, try checking in on him. Making sure everything is ok in his life and your there for him.

March 12, 2020, 04:16:26 PM
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FireGecko90


Sounds a bit like my bf at the moment. Seems he would rather play pokemon go than reply to my message asking him if he is feeling better. Honestly you're probably best off kicking him to the curb.

March 13, 2020, 07:16:49 PM
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Hello. Just a background of our relationship. We are officemates but we rarely talk about work because we are on a different teams but our stations are on the same  floor. Also, we dont usually talk in the office coz we don't like our bosses to find out our relationship but both our colleagues, family and friends knows our relationship. We've been together as couple for 5 months now. At first he is really sweet to me. He will do all the efforts that he could possibly do even on his busy days.

But this past month, I feel that my boyfriend is ignoring me. I don't know if he still love me. He always says that he loves me but his actions were different. Most of the time he prefers watching tv or playing games rather than texting me.

I already confronted him about what I feel several times and it always leads to argument. He says he's just busy which I already know that is true but what I've been worrying is that he has time to play on this mobile but he will just text me before he sleep like goodnight babe sweet dreams and then thats it. I cannot talk to him after office hours coz he is always doing overtime. I also asked him several times if he still loves me his answer was always yes iloveyou.

Now I tried not to talk to him for 2 days now and he doesn't do any move to talk to me. Our pictures and status in social media also our nicknames in messenger were still there and not hidden so I don't think he cheats unless the other party is aware that he has a girlfriend but I doubt it coz I'm seeing him in the office. That's why there is a little hope that maybe he needs time. Should I just keep silent too and give him space. Or should I just give up and break up with him? What if I break up and then he just agreed without doing or asking anything. I already said all my thoughts but he still in silence and I don't want to flood him with questions like "why are you ignoring me"? Please help. 😭
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March 20, 2020, 01:27:27 PM
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