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Author Topic: my boyfriend is getting married !! HELP !!

April 08, 2019, 11:44:57 AM
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Sunshine


So here is the thing,
 Im with this guy for 2 years now,  from the beginning this relationship was about having fun and being together knowing that we had a big crush on each other,  he is 46yo ( 20years age diff)  and he doesnt want to get married,  not with me not with anybody, he is afraid of commitement wich is okay with me,  now im suprised that he tell me that he will get married,  a traditionnal mariage,  he needs a wife that takes care of him as he gets older and take care of his house ( sort of a maid)  his parents are insisting that he should commit before the end of the year and the wife will be chosen by them,   knowing that he never asked me about my opinion,  and i live in another city, i have work and ambitions and i can't leave everything behind to live with him and be his maid in the name of love. One day we talked about this,  he said that we talked about this relationship since the beginning and we know that one day we will breakup, 
still he loves me so much and he showed it to me several times. Knowing all of this,  my heart is in pieces and im very sad,  we are still together and i didnt show him anything,  there is still no decision, and i dont know how to proceed nor what to think. Please help me,  he is my first love ever,  i dont know what to do

April 08, 2019, 02:41:12 PM
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california10


Oh no, I am so sorry :(
Are you sure that's the real reason and that he didn't already have a girlfriend and has been with her this entire time?

April 08, 2019, 02:54:26 PM
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Sunshine


Yes im sure,  we spend most of the time together,  even if we are far away,  we are always talking by phone 😟

April 08, 2019, 07:27:22 PM
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Mimi12


Babe your still very young and he is your first love so I know it’s hard.. but someone like that doesn’t really love you because otherwise you would of came first regardless so what you need to do is cancel him out your life and move on and I know it’s easier said than done.. I know how it feels I’ve been in your shoes but baby girl you need to move on.

 

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